Need Help - Family Situation with Younger Sister

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[Woolygimp]

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Looks like your younger sister has already gone a very long way down the wrong path. Not sure how you can prevent her from allowing him over to her place unless you plan on 24/7 surveillance.

Keep trying to talk sense into your sister, but I doubt it will counteract the last 17 years of her upbringing.

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I'm friends with almost all of my sister's friends. I know when he goes over there.

My sister is a great kid, she's smart, she's not on drugs, she's a straight A student.

As far as my options? I could quickdial a phone number to my mom and then she'd be out of that apartment almost immediately. As I said, my mom is backing me up on whatever decision I make. This has to do with my dad leaving, since he was a real stern guy and the counterbalance to my mom's gullibility.

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My sister is a great kid, she's smart, she's not on drugs, she's a straight A student.

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Why isnt she going to college instead of staying in town with those jopkes? Try to suggest that

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My sister is a great kid, she's smart, she's not on drugs, she's a straight A student.

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Why isnt she going to college instead of staying in town with those jopkes? Try to suggest that

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She's a junior in high school?

My sister has an AMAZING amount of potential, she was class president and is a likely candidate for a college such as Yale or Harvard if that's where she wants to go.

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Looks like your younger sister has already gone a very long way down the wrong path. Not sure how you can prevent her from allowing him over to her place unless you plan on 24/7 surveillance.

Keep trying to talk sense into your sister, but I doubt it will counteract the last 17 years of her upbringing.

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I'm friends with almost all of my sister's friends. I know when he goes over there.

My sister is a great kid, she's smart, she's not on drugs, she's a straight A student.

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O RLY? Something tells me this is not necessarily the case, at least not anymore.

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As far as my options? I could quickdial a phone number to my mom and then she'd be out of that apartment almost immediately. As I said, my mom is backing me up on whatever decision I make. This has to do with my dad leaving, since he was a real stern guy and the counterbalance to my mom's gullibility.

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Then what the [censored] is the question?

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Looks like your younger sister has already gone a very long way down the wrong path. Not sure how you can prevent her from allowing him over to her place unless you plan on 24/7 surveillance.

Keep trying to talk sense into your sister, but I doubt it will counteract the last 17 years of her upbringing.

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I'm friends with almost all of my sister's friends. I know when he goes over there.

My sister is a great kid, she's smart, she's not on drugs, she's a straight A student.

As far as my options? I could quickdial a phone number to my mom and then she'd be out of that apartment almost immediately. As I said, my mom is backing me up on whatever decision I make.

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I understand that you have the power to make it happen, but how do you plan to actually get your sister to change her behavior?

I have two daughters and this type of situation scares the bejesus out of me because once things reach a point like this, I do not know how you put the genie back in the bottle.

Dominic obviously has a tremendous amount of influence over her. If you have Mom drop the hammer, will sis just move in with this idiot?

[Autocratic]

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As far as my options? I could quickdial a phone number to my mom and then she'd be out of that apartment almost immediately. As I said, my mom is backing me up on whatever decision I make. This has to do with my dad leaving, since he was a real stern guy and the counterbalance to my mom's gullibility.

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Then what the [censored] is the question?

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Seriously, drop the [censored] hammer.

[bobman0330]

How about a guilt angle? Play up the fact that your mother could have been murdered if she had gotten home first and the situation had escalated badly. Tell her that she's endangering her mother's safety by keeping this guy around.

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How does a junior afford/live an her own apartment. I know there is no way in hell I could have ever done that. I guess she could be rediculously mature but I highly doubt that.

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Looks like your younger sister has already gone a very long way down the wrong path. Not sure how you can prevent her from allowing him over to her place unless you plan on 24/7 surveillance.

Keep trying to talk sense into your sister, but I doubt it will counteract the last 17 years of her upbringing.

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I'm friends with almost all of my sister's friends. I know when he goes over there.

My sister is a great kid, she's smart, she's not on drugs, she's a straight A student.

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O RLY? Something tells me this is not necessarily the case, at least not anymore.

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As far as my options? I could quickdial a phone number to my mom and then she'd be out of that apartment almost immediately. As I said, my mom is backing me up on whatever decision I make. This has to do with my dad leaving, since he was a real stern guy and the counterbalance to my mom's gullibility.

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Then what the [censored] is the question?

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Because I'm not throwing away the friendship with my sister over this douchebag. She's naive and young, but not stupid.

I know he's been over there twice in the couple weeks she's moved out, I'm very good friends with her friends...just trust me.