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#22
10-12-2006, 10:11 PM
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Move to Thailand
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Then she hints about coming back. I told her that I thought we should cool off over the weekend. She said it would be nice to hear me tell her "I miss you too much, come home now!". [/ QUOTE ] Your suppose to grovel, tell her she is perfect, and you suck. [ QUOTE ] Then she says "I sure hope you're ex is around tomorrow because I'm not picking Nick up at school" [/ QUOTE ] Yeah, your suppose to support her lazy ass while she never contributes. [ QUOTE ] I told her that was complete BS and I wasn't going to stand for it. [/ QUOTE ] I don't believe you. You give in to all her other blackmail attempts so I doubt you will grow a backbone now... [ QUOTE ] Am I miserable right now? Yes [/ QUOTE ] No need to read any more. She is a self-centered bitch that only thinks for herself. Abandone her, move to Thailand, and screw about 10 Thai girls. 
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#23
10-13-2006, 08:18 AM
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Re: Wife problems Part II
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[ QUOTE ] Sunday morning she calls me and tells me she's taking the kids to her parents lakehouse. (obviously my son isn't with them. He went to Florida with his mother) I was a bit surprised since we had talked about being apart for the weekend. I didn't harp on it too much. She tried to make it come across as it was about as much for a vacation for her kids as anything. I took it in stride and figured if nothing else I could play some more poker. [/ QUOTE ] Got me a little confused here...are you saying you were surprised that she called you since you had agreed to stay apart for the weekend? I guess I don't get what you mean about taking it in stride. She called me on the morning she was supposed to be coming home. Instead she was leaving town that day and gone 3 more days. [ QUOTE ] So Wednesday comes along.... We had discussed her coming back that day sometime. I thought she was coming back in the afternoon. So I took the day off work to go play some more poker. But before I did I wanted to call her and make sure she wasn't on the way home. I didn't want her to be pissed at me for going off playing in a poker tourney right when she got home. So I call her and she doesn't answer...So off to the casino I go. Well about an hour later she calls baback tellin me they're leaving the lakehouse. On the way back from the casino I call her and mention that we should go out to eat for dinner. She agrees. Then my son calls me and says they just got back in Memphis and would I pick him up. Well damn right I will this week my days are Wednesday and Thursday. I call my wife knowing she's not going to be happy with it. But she held her composure and says "Wow, you're going from all alone to a full house. You're going to go crazy with all of em huh? he he." She really said it in a nice way though. I reply with "Ya, but I miss everyone so it's cool" [/ QUOTE ] I have to confess - when you made your original post, I was under the impression your son was living with you full time. I didn't realize you only had him with you a few days a week. That actually puts a bit of a different spin on the situation with your wife and picking him up from school. It sounds like you're implying that your "days" with your son rotate. I'm curious why one of those days wouldn't always be on the weekend, when you're actually not working? On weekdays, what time do you get home? Is it not convenient for you to pick him up from your wife? Does your ex insist that he be picked up from school instead of from her home??I'm not saying that your wife should or shouldn't pick him up from school, just that it's obviously not the same as if he was primarily living with you. That's the impression I was under before, which would make her refusing to pick him up to be completely absurd. Since your days with your son this week were Wednesday and Thursday, shouldn't you have known before Wednesday about picking up your son? Shouldn't your current wife have known this as well (that your son would be around on Wednesday)??? The way you are describing it, it almost sounds like you were pleasantly surprised to hear from your son on Wednesday (even though it was your day with him), and that this was also a surprise to your wife, even though this was apparently the day you planned on coming back together. Why had you and your wife not talked the school thing out prior to the last minute before the end of your cool off....what gives? [/ QUOTE ] With all that had gone on that week I thought my wife forgot Nick was with us on Wed and Thus that week. I was right. I wasn't sure if Nick would be there. Like I said he went to Florida. His mother was'nt sure when they were coming back. He mentioned on Tuesday that he thought they were coming back sometime on Wednesday. As far as my wife picking Nick up at school all I ask is on the days we have him that she picks him up just like she picks her kids up. I see no problem with that whatsoever. I can't think of anyone who would think it would be ok to make one child go to after school daycare while the others are at home playing. Oh, I actually get my son just a hair more than half the days of the year. But it's joint custoday.
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#24
10-13-2006, 09:51 AM
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Re: Wife problems Part II
You are in for big, big problems down the road. Get out now.
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#25
10-13-2006, 10:51 AM
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Keep Weeding the Garden
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but I've yet to come across a woman who wasn't in her own way conniving, manipulative, or downright bitchy when it comes to certain stuff. And if you ask me, so long as you put your foot down when needed, [/ QUOTE ] There is a lot of truth here. BS from a woman is like weeds. If you never address it, they will multiply exponentially and you will be surrounded by weeds. If you are proactive and rip the weeds out when they first appear then you will still get an ocassional weed but keeping you garden clean will be a whole lot EASIER. Nick let to much BS slide without putting his foot down and he is paying the price. I don't have too much sympathy for him because he chose to marry this witch and allowed her to disrespect him without any fear of consequences...... The German philospher Friedrich Nietzsche had a good quote on woman that went something like this; <font color="blue"> 'A woman can not truly love a man unless she fears he will leave her' </font> His woman thinks she has him pussy-whipped and can blackmail him emotionally any time she wants to. And sadly, she is probably right.... I'm a big fan of Nietzsche because I think he was very insightful on human nature. And unlike most philosphers, he got laid a lot. Unfortunately for him he got syphilis and became insane. More Nietzsche Quotes: "Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent." "Women are quite able to make friends with a man; but to preserve such a friendship - that no doubt requires the assistance of a slight physical antipathy." *** [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] "There are women who, however you may search them, prove to have no content but are purely masks. The man who associates with such almost spectral, necessarily unsatisfied beings is to be commiserated with, yet it is precisely they who are able to arouse the desire of the man most strongly: he seeks for her soul -- and goes on seeking." “In revenge and in love, woman is more barbarous than man” Behind all their personal vanity, women themselves always have an impersonal contempt—for “woman.” ***This describes the cattiness that many women have for each other.
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