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Old 03-18-2007, 07:28 PM
Hopey Hopey is offline
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Default Re: Girls are weird.

You really need to work on your interpersonal skills. Suddenly telling her that you don't want to be friends anymore without any explanation -- after 2 years of being "best friends" -- is not normal behaviour.

Did she have any inkling about how you felt?

Also, if the PUA guys are to be believed, the fact that you treated her like garbage may have suddenly made you more attractive to her. This could be why she has been trying to get in contact with you again.
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Old 03-18-2007, 07:32 PM
Churro Man Churro Man is offline
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You really need to work on your interpersonal skills. Suddenly telling her that you don't want to be friends anymore without any explanation -- after 2 years of being "best friends" -- is not normal behaviour.

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We talked about it alot online. She knew why.

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Did she have any inkling about how you felt?


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She knew. She always came back with a "I don't get why you can't just be friends." Then I would say how I've tried, and I don't want to beat myself over it anymore.
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Old 03-18-2007, 07:57 PM
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Default Re: Girls are weird.

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You really need to work on your interpersonal skills. Suddenly telling her that you don't want to be friends anymore without any explanation -- after 2 years of being "best friends" -- is not normal behaviour.

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We talked about it alot online. She knew why.

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Did she have any inkling about how you felt?


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She knew. She always came back with a "I don't get why you can't just be friends." Then I would say how I've tried, and I don't want to beat myself over it anymore.

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This is all information that you should have included in the OP. It's hard for us to give you advice if we don't know the facts.

Oh, and I agree with Homer.
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Old 03-18-2007, 08:12 PM
Fabian Fabian is offline
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Default Re: Girls are weird.

Churro,

The reason she's talking to you after 9 months is because she wants you to ask her to the prom. If this is because she's out of other options or because she's genuinely excited about going to prom with you, we don't know. However, that's the dealio.

Now. Do you want to take her? If so, "yes I'm going to prom, not sure who to take though. Do you want to go with me?" and if not, "yes, I'm going to prom. I'll see you there".

Also if you do go to prom with her, don't act as weird as you are in this thread. What I mean by this is, act like you're in a normal social setting, and don't continously bring up how you haven't seen each other in 9 months and it was so weird how you just messaged me out of the blue lol and all that. Again, normal social setting, not crazy myspace dude.
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Old 03-18-2007, 08:23 PM
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dude, Fabian's right on all three counts.

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Helpful replies and I may post pics, thanks.


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you're up, kid!
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Old 03-18-2007, 07:54 PM
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I'm so tired of reading these back and forth conversations that are written in broken English.

You sound like a [censored] retard.

"yeah, that was kidna random...
idk who my datell be yet tho"
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Old 03-18-2007, 08:09 PM
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I'm so tired of reading these back and forth conversations that are written in broken English.

You sound like a [censored] retard.

"yeah, that was kidna random...
idk who my datell be yet tho"

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If that is not a typo, that is the worst shorthand spelling technique I have ever seen. God I hope people don't do that on purpose.
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Old 03-18-2007, 10:58 PM
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Default Re: Girls are weird.

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I'm so tired of reading these back and forth conversations that are written in broken English.

You sound like a [censored] retard.

"yeah, that was kidna random...
idk who my datell be yet tho"

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So true.....it really REALLY annoys me - are people really that rushed for time/lazy that they have to use these obsurd abbreviations...grr.
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Old 03-18-2007, 11:21 PM
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high school! FTW!
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Old 03-18-2007, 11:59 PM
Churro Man Churro Man is offline
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Edge34,

18 years old.
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