Should I have a second kid?

[Banks2334]

The fact you have already reproduced is enough. Do everyone a favor and don't have another kid. And use protection, don't take her word for it.

[schundler]

just steal one from the zoo

[happyhappyhappy]

She's a cynical bitch, has massive mood swings that go from wanting a divorce to wanting another child, and you're even considering wanting to be around her for the nine months of her being pregnant again? Not to even mention all the other aspects of having a second child?

Surely you are joking.

[flo]

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Having a kid is not the answer to solving marital problems. I would do whatever is best for your firstborn.

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[dlk9s]

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Im not a [censored]

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Based on your posts in this thread, I seriously doubt this.

[btmagnetw]

wtf get a [censored] divorce

[revots33]

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Good point:
ME WIFE
27 age 23
5'7" height 5'
155 weight 109
Im middle management at a superstore and on the "fasttrack" meaning Im not a [censored] so within five years I will make a solid living(6 figure) if I don't change careers. I am currently satisfied with my life and job and a happy person in general. My wife says Im a selfish jerk. She is a cynical B*tch about everything and everyone and constently bad mouths OOTers(whore). She also finds any excuse to avoid employment and spends money like a m-fer. She is however a good caring mother, and better looking arm candy than my friends wives. (I will try to post a pic if I can figure it out, not NSFW though ) She also allows me to do what I want most the time, is deathly honest and loyal, and gives it up whenever I want. She would not attempt to get pregnant for more money under any circumstance so that is out the window. So is it worth working at?

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Wow she sounds great. Seriously, divorce ftw. She sounds like one of those women who wants another kid every time she starts to get bored.

And FWIW I've never heard of a rocky marriage being improved by another kid. Kids are great and all, but every study conducted has shown that kids add stress and decrease marital satisfaction. Which means you need a strong marriage in the first place to have kids, which it sounds like you don't have.

[Fast Food Knight]

OP, I foresee a thread like this in your future.

[mickii]

Has anyone been divorced? How much does it cost? Actually if I had a set amt to pay for support and that ish I was thinking I might come out ahead.

[mickii]

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OP, I foresee a thread like this in your future.

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just finished the thread. my goal needs to be changed to avoid his scenario entirely.