Whats My Play ? Ex-Boyf lingering around...

[AJackson]

If she says she's not ready for a relationship, then I would take her at her word. Limit your emotional involvement, have fun and keep your eyes open for someone who is available. If something developes in the meantine, fine. If not, then no big loss.

[Vavavoom]

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Depends how she responds to him talking like this. If she shuts him down and refuses to talk to him when he talks like this then everything is good. If she is receptive and leaves him with hope then I leave.

Since you were concerned enough to post this I think it's probably the latter.

Also, I would like to know how you know they were talking about this? If it is something she came to you to talk openly about then she gets bonus points.

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She just mentioned it to me as we were having dinner on Saturday night....She just came out with it...we were talking about saturday daytime in general and she talked about it...i asked a few questions and made my own mind up in my head that this bloke was now trying to get back in the frame....

[Hopey]

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Another factor that winds me up no end is: he's 41 and shes 20 ! IMO, hes obv a complete loser

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40 year old men who bang hot 20 year olds are losers?? [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

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If the 20 year old is very hot and the 40 year old is very rich, then no.

However, if either of the above is not true, then one or both of these people are losers.

Something tells me that while Vava's girl may be very hot, the 41 year old guy involved is not a rich guy. More likely Vava's girl is looking for a "daddy figure" and has quite a few problems of her own.

Run from this trainwreck, Vava.

[ElDuque]

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Run from this trainwreck, Vava.

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Dude, you can't run fast enough. Hop a plane...

[Magisastar]

I dont think you really have a play here, bro. I reckon the best you can do is be cool about it, and try not to get in to deep emotionally. When she sorts her [censored] out, she might come back, but it doesnt really look good.

[punkass]

dude, run. Good outcomes only are true on tv and movies.

[Alobar]

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In fact - The more I think about it, the more I'm gonna just walk away ....

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good call

[Dominic]

your play is to stop calling her. she's not into you anymore.

[El Diablo]

Tron: "I actually finger-[censored] a girl the other night.... LOL, brings back memories of middle school...." Middle school? Nice.

Vava: "he's 41 and shes 20" This dude rules! Pics of the chick, pls!

[odellthurman]

Threesome.