girlfriend being harassed, what to do? - Page 3

davebreal · #21 08-20-2007, 10:54 AM

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if the gf really wanted the messages to stop, she would ignore them and the ex

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she has been trying to do this for a while, but he is really hung up.

KotOD · #22 08-20-2007, 11:17 AM

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if the gf really wanted the messages to stop, she would ignore them and the ex

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she has been trying to do this for a while, but he is really hung up.

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Restraining order -- WINNA WINNA!

highlife · #23 08-20-2007, 11:33 AM

first of all, you are an idiot for responding to the messages in the first place. you are just egging him on.

just call the phone company and get the number blocked. geez.

tpir · #24 08-20-2007, 11:45 AM

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first of all, you are an idiot for responding to the messages in the first place. you are just egging him on.

just call the phone company and get the number blocked. geez.

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ding!

call the police while you are at it. no need to play around with this sort of thing. a friend of mine tried to take care of a situation like this on his own and he ended up waking up in the middle of the night to a dude punching him in the face who had broken into the house.

adsman · #25 08-20-2007, 11:45 AM

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Dude, wtf. She's a grown women

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Actually I reckon they're all about 16. At least, I'm hoping they are.

bryan4967 · #26 08-20-2007, 12:12 PM

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The request has to come from the girl. Not the new guy.

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XXXNoahXXX · #27 08-20-2007, 12:42 PM

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first of all, you are an idiot for responding to the messages in the first place. you are just egging him on.

just call the phone company and get the number blocked. geez.

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Given the talk of text messages I'm guessing its a cell phone, which means you can just go into your settings and block the number. If he then still tries to make contact, come to the house, then you get restraining order.

guids · #28 08-20-2007, 01:05 PM

You guys are seriously advocating calling the police? what are you nuts?

Besides teh fact that they wont do anything, the OP is the one making threats, not the ex. The Ex is just looking for some poon, OP is an insecure 16 year old trying to pick a fight.

ps- OP, your gf is a drama queen.

wslee00 · #29 08-20-2007, 01:08 PM

um - just tell the gf to get a new #?

ooinsight · #30 08-20-2007, 01:24 PM

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blah blah blah blah. that is the second dumbest thing i have ever heard.

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You mod oot, how can you even type this without your head exploding?

OP: Clearly not at the point where this needs to be escalated. If you really feel you must take action, I second edfurlong's advice of sending sexually explicit text messages to his pets.

tpir: