Can relationship trust be regained?

[mntbikr15]

Title sorta sums up the basic question.

WAS going to write out my whole story and decided no one really wanted to read it. If the answer to the Q depends on the specifics of the situation than I will.

I will offer that the issues only went as far as kissing and developing feelings for another man....nothing more...or so she says and given that I can read her very well Id put the chances of it being the truth at >90%.

So, once my fiance has broken my trust...and Ive broken hers(snooping after finding out, she caught me)....will I EVER be able to get it out of my mind, to overlook it and go on with our lives? I dont doubt that our love is still there...just that I can ever get it out of my mind....I DO think Im able to forgive her.

Will she?

Thoughts?

Serious answers only...preferably from someone who has been in the same spot.

Thanks,
Evan