Cheating on your wife

[RiverFenix]

You use protection for oral? Girl ever find that weird?

[lostsoul]

A couple have. I was talking about on my end. I use a dental damn. If I ever go down on a woman. I usually have to be with her a couple of times before I do that though. If a girl wants to go down on me only if they say anything do I use a condom.

[Stepping Stone]

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bzzzt ...

[vhawk01]

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I know plenty of happy and long-married couples who have never run into problems with "cheating".


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The fact that you never heard anything doesn’t necessarily mean it never happened. I’ve actually met women who are practicing the same lifestyle as op. It wouldn’t surprise me in the least if 40% of married couples had a cheating spouse. I’ve seen it at work and I’ve also seen it in clubs.

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40% is pretty much a given, lol.

To most posters (those with the high moral standards). I don't know in what kind of shielded environments you are living. But I won't judge you. I am better than that. Only a bit of advice: Open your eyes at all the people around you. And get at least 40 years old before preaching morals.

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It has nothing to do with morals. Fine, we are designed to cheat, just as we are designed to steal and kill. We are ALSO designed to cooperate, to have empathy, and to demonstrate altruism. These predilections are often in conflict. What people are objecting to is the way the OP chooses to resolve this conflict. Morality aside, it is an ineffective strategy for society to encourage stealing, and it is (arguably) an ineffective strategy for society to encourage cheating. That he gets away with it is pretty irrelevant. Many people get away with theft.

[Mi_T_Sharp]

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Always use protection. Everytime. Not with my wife but with every other girl. Use it for everything oral anal doesn't matter.


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She let me cum right in her mouth. I warned her befre I did and she only started to blow me more when I said that.

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Things that make you go, "Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm."

[Ignacio Munoz]

OP how old are you? How long have you been married? How many women would estimate you have slept with since you got married?

Also, more TRs please. Thanks.

[goofyballer]

According to Wikipedia (which cited the figure from a paper) the chances of contracting HIV from oral sex w/o a condom is 1 in 20,000. The chances of contracting it from unprotected sex are 10 in 20,000 also, which seems super low given the stigma surrounding unprotected sex in our society.

[ChexNFX]

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According to Wikipedia (which cited the figure from a paper) the chances of contracting HIV from oral sex w/o a condom is 1 in 20,000. The chances of contracting it from unprotected sex are 10 in 20,000 also, which seems super low given the stigma surrounding unprotected sex in our society.

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I don't think HIV is the lead concern with condom wearers.

[lostsoul]

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Always use protection. Everytime. Not with my wife but with every other girl. Use it for everything oral anal doesn't matter.


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She let me cum right in her mouth. I warned her befre I did and she only started to blow me more when I said that.

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Things that make you go, "Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm."

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If u read all of my posts u would see I said oral on her not on me.

[lostsoul]

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OP how old are you? How long have you been married? How many women would estimate you have slept with since you got married?

Also, more TRs please. Thanks.

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I am in my early 30's. I don't count but easily a few hundred.