Hooker Dilemma - Page 20

Jgents · #**191** 09-29-2005, 08:48 PM

Hey Michael. Big fan of your Costa Rican escapades. If I'm late with this, of well.

While on the surface it looks like you made the wrong decision (in terms of pleasure and overall satisfaction) in going with the other two hookers instead of your regular one, I'd say in the long-term this decision is +EV. From your own admission, the regular hooker played you during the third visit and she may know you are attached to her--whether emotionally or just for the sex--in which case this is bad for you and good for her. Bad for you because those extra freebies she was handing out early in the relationship (perhaps to enamor you) she can now stop providing since you are letting her dictate the relationship. The ball is on her court, why should it? You're the paying customer.

She may also ease off or slack off in providing you with the intensity in the bedroom you're used to if she believes you will put up with it and keep coming back for more. A big mistake. Once a conniving woman has a man trapped trapped--has a man attached to her--she can manipulate and do whatever she wants to that man for her own benefit. By ignoring her for the time being and going with the other hookers you send a loud and clear message that you are still in charge and will not put up with any BS if your personal needs are not fulfilled to your utmost satisfaction.

It was awesome that she was there and saw wen you picked the other two. Let her think about that for a while, then when you are ready for boogie nights with this chick again, let down the law, let her know what you want and when you want it, for how long--dictate the action and sequence of events. Next time you hook up with her (no put intended), I'm sure she will have come around and will give you the best sex yet. If she's smart. You're a steady income to her and she obviously wants to keep you as a regular, but make sure you continue to let her know that at any time you are not completely satisfied you are willing to look elsewhere. This should solve your dilemma.