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10-30-2007, 02:12 AM
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Re: Dealing with a break up
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cut off all contact [/ QUOTE ] Eh, this isn't necessary unless it's the absolute only way to get over her. Having a good friendship with an ex is difficult to do, but shows great maturity. However, if you want to get over her and have no interest in her as a person anymore, then this is def the way to go. 
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#14
10-30-2007, 02:15 AM
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Re: Dealing with a break up
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[ QUOTE ] cut off all contact [/ QUOTE ] Eh, this isn't necessary unless it's the absolute only way to get over her. Having a good friendship with an ex is difficult to do, but shows great maturity. However, if you want to get over her and have no interest in her as a person anymore, then this is def the way to go. [/ QUOTE ] i disagree- if you really need to get over her, cutting off all contact may be the only thing to do right now... the time for being friends is months down the road... don't try and remain buddy buddy with someone your in love with who doesn't want you anymore, save the friendship for when you can be healthy friends
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#15
10-30-2007, 04:18 AM
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Re: Dealing with a break up
Easiest way is to hook up with another girl IMO.
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#16
10-30-2007, 08:49 AM
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Re: Dealing with a break up
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[ QUOTE ] cut off all contact [/ QUOTE ] Eh, this isn't necessary unless it's the absolute only way to get over her. Having a good friendship with an ex is difficult to do, but shows great maturity. However, if you want to get over her and have no interest in her as a person anymore, then this is def the way to go. [/ QUOTE ] Maybe i just date [censored] girls, but once I get over the initial sadness of breaking up and missing them, I'm usually pretty glad I'm rid of their BS.
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#17
10-30-2007, 12:46 PM
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Re: Dealing with a break up
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Easiest way is to hook up with another girl IMO. [/ QUOTE ] This isn't always the best idea. I've tried this and the new girl can get attached and you're in a bad spot trying to deal with losing one girl and not wanting this other one. My advice would be as others have said keep busy, get away from school as much as possible. Don't throw yourself back out there trying to meet someone, it'll only make you miss your ex. Let that stuff come naturally. For now work on making sure your mind is busy so you can move on.
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10-30-2007, 02:58 PM
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Re: Dealing with a break up
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] cut off all contact [/ QUOTE ] Eh, this isn't necessary unless it's the absolute only way to get over her. Having a good friendship with an ex is difficult to do, but shows great maturity. However, if you want to get over her and have no interest in her as a person anymore, then this is def the way to go. [/ QUOTE ] i disagree- if you really need to get over her, cutting off all contact may be the only thing to do right now... the time for being friends is months down the road... don't try and remain buddy buddy with someone your in love with who doesn't want you anymore, save the friendship for when you can be healthy friends [/ QUOTE ] I agree with this. The time for friendship is later, trying to hang out and make it work out now is just not going to happen. Go your way, let her go hers and then one day you'll get past the hurt and resentment and you can be friends. Or you might realize you don't want to.
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10-30-2007, 07:52 PM
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Re: Dealing with a break up
I meant it's not necessary in the long run. I would never suggest trying to be best friends with your ex right after you break up. The boundaries would be really confusing.
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