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Yo Adrians! · #1 10-23-2007, 09:20 PM

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Married eight years, and yes to all. It can happen, but it isn't guaranteed.

FWIW, I met "the one" really early and got married relatively young. I do wish I had spent more time playing the field, sowing wild oats, hooking up w/ random sloots, etc.

But things happen when they happen. And I wouldn't trade where I am right now for anything in the world.

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This is basically exactly my situation. I met a girl my second year of college, fell in love, and we got married when I was 24 and she was 22.

Our 7-year wedding anniversary is this week, and we are still very much in love, best friends, have two wonderful sons, and are a good fit.

We'll BOTH admit, though, that we sometimes wish we wouldn't have met so early, gotten a chance to travel, play the field, etc., a bit more.

But we're also fine with the choices we've made, and we make a very good team.

As for the 'wild oats' thing, hey, nothing a trip to Vegas each year can't fix [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

Fast Food Knight · #2 10-24-2007, 10:05 AM

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Our 7-year wedding anniversary is this week, and we are still very much in love, best friends, have two wonderful sons, and are a good fit.

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As for the 'wild oats' thing, hey, nothing a trip to Vegas each year can't fix [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

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4_2_it · #3 10-24-2007, 11:04 AM

FFK,

You've never heard of the 7-year itch? It's a rite of pasage for most married men I know.

The Dude · #4 10-21-2007, 06:39 AM

FWIW, I was married for less than a year before we split up.

1. Yes, I married a good fit.
2. No, she was not the best person possible for me. No one ever is.
3. lol at the idea of "the one."

CrazyEyez · #5 10-21-2007, 11:46 AM

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1. Yes, I married a good fit.
2. No, she was not the best person possible for me. No one ever is.
3. lol at the idea of "the one."

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qft

I got married too young, which led to problems for awhile. But we stuck it out and now I couldn't really ask for much more. 10 years, two kids, lifeisgood.

ACG2x · #6 10-21-2007, 08:22 AM

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riverdance · #7 10-21-2007, 08:53 AM

dude in "single life ftw" pic has wedding ring

27offsuit · #8 10-21-2007, 10:51 AM

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dude in "single life ftw" pic has wedding ring

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He's having a hard time letting go...

Five-Star · #9 10-21-2007, 11:27 AM

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dude in "single life ftw" pic has wedding ring

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He's having a hard time letting go...

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or

Toro · #10 10-21-2007, 10:12 AM

Forget those stupid questions.

The key is low maintenance. The level of maintenance required is directly proportional to the years you're married. So start with a low maintenance woman and you'll be fine.