How much does a girl's promiscuous past bother you?

[xx44]

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as long as she isn't giving me the herp or the HIV i don't mind that much. a lot of girls that i've known with promiscuous pasts really aren't my type psychologically and i couldn't have a long-term relationship with them, but i don't respect them less for sleeping around or anything.

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The psychological issue may have been the reason of my rejection of this type of girl in my college days. The biggest turn off for me would be when a girl will try to overly-cuddle with after sex the first night. Used to bother me to the point where there was no way I could spend the night with them. That was it for me, never a second date. I would guess daddy issues. Damn do I miss college.

In regards to my OP I will give her the benefit until I see any odd behavior.

[OtherAcctBanned]

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I see that as a green light, not a red flag.

I wonder why this would bother a guy at all. As someone else said, as long as there's no disease threat, who cares? You get the benefit of her practicing.

What would suck is if she has a promiscuous past and is terrible in bed.

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Maybe it doesn't bother you, but that's not the same as you not being able to see why it bothers others, ya know? For example: it would bother plenty of people to imagine their significant other being bent over a hand rail and pounded to last tuesday by some other guy, ya understand? Is that simply not that hard to comprehend, or is it just me?

[pokerbobo]

Reminds me of a movie scene.

36!!! You sucked 36 dicks!!!? Does that include me?

Well, 37.

[KotOD]

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Reminds me of a movie scene.

26!!! You sucked 26 dicks!!!? Does that include me?

Well, 27.

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You are 10 short.

[jaydub]

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I wonder why this would bother a guy at all.

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Evolution.

J

[AllinDan]

you equating promiscuous past to "at least 50" is ridiculous. Maybe it's 50+, maybe 100+, maybe 10+, all it means is that she feels (in relation to friends or w/e) it was a lot, and apparently YOU think a lot is 50+. I'd care a hell of a lot more about the connection the two of you have than about [censored] in the past.

[NT!]

what i am referring to with the psychological thing is basically girls with major attachment issues, daddy issues, etc. a lot of these girls are the ones who have really promiscuous pasts (and are sometimes pretty exploited in the process). i just don't tend to be psychologically compatible with them, i like a girl who is a little more secure and can let me be independent.

[popeye18]

im 21 and 50 would bother me ALOT.

[xx44]

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So I have gone on 3 dates with this girl. We hit it off real well,she is totally cool with a smoking body.We have had some deep conversations, and in our last one she had told me she had a promiscuous past. This was the day after our 3rd date(first time we had sex).

So Im guessing she has been with at least 50 and could be much more. The question is if this would stand in the way with you getting serious with somebody?

When I was younger this would have bothered me much more. But now I have no problem looking past this.

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Good work on growing up. Now continue to bang hot ass.

It will bother insecure men and young kids pretty badly. Actually, most all young kids are ridiculously insecure as well.

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The actual act of sleeping with a lot of guys was not the issue.Less guys would be better, but it's not a deal breaker. My experience, it was the personality that came with the promiscuity.

[LocustHorde]

If a gal, depending on her age, had sex w/ 50 guys, chances are good that she has had a case of crabs..

just food for thought is all..