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06-27-2007, 09:57 PM
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Re: Telling people they need to lose weight (or other unpleasant thing
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[ QUOTE ] can we hijack this, to, say, how to tell your girl she gives bad head? (things that actually need to be said) [/ QUOTE ]tell her you like the way she does it, watch some instruction head videos together and be like, could you try it this way sometime? Then ask if there's anything that she'd like you to try or any way to make it better for her. Also during you can ask her to do stuff too. Your sounds should illustrate to her what you likes and what you don't like. She probably wants to please you as much as you want good head, but she probably doesn't know since it doesn't seem like you've brought it up. [/ QUOTE ] Just tell her what you want her to do. Women want to please if they like you, and they are happy to hear pointers as long as you frame it politely. 
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#12
06-27-2007, 10:41 PM
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Re: Telling people they need to lose weight (or other unpleasant thing
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[ QUOTE ] speaking from personal experience, there is no real point in telling people this stuff, they know it, it is up to them to change. [/ QUOTE ] [/ QUOTE ] taking this one step further... help them change. invite them over for a healthy dinner or go food shopping with them. get a gym membership with them. buy 'em some clothes when they lose some weight. etc etc etc. if they're really fat it might just be getting them out for a walk or to toss a frisbee. also, you don't even have to bring up their weight necessarily. some people will respond better if you're like "yo you're fat let's get a gym membership together and tell you what, i'll come pick you up every other day and make your fatass go" other people will work better if you don't mention their weight but are just like "hey i want to join a gym but i don't wanna go by myself you should join" and then pester them til they do. also, this will be good motivation for you. i was like 6'1 200lbs at one point (no muscle) dropped down to like 165 but never went to the gym or anything. then i decided to help out a friend and it was much easier for me to drag his ass to the gym, knowing i was doing it for him, than it was for me to get the motivation to go for myself.
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#13
06-27-2007, 10:54 PM
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Re: Telling people they need to lose weight (or other unpleasant thing
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can we hijack this, to, say, how to tell your girl she gives bad head? (things that actually need to be said) [/ QUOTE ] lol at all you donkeys that don't talk about sex with your partners.
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06-27-2007, 11:01 PM
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Re: Telling people they need to lose weight (or other unpleasant thing
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Were you brought up in a barn? I'm a skinny old (female) coot, and I still know that you never, ever tell people they need to lose weight, never, not unless you're their doctor. Guess what, dude, they already know they're fat. Do you seriously think these people are idiots? As far as living past 40, fat people live past 40 with no problem, it's anorexics who die in their 20s. When you reach my age, you'll feel pretty silly, because the fat people go on and on, and it's my skinny friends who keep conking over in their 50s. Fat people may die in their 60s, in which case they are not giving up the best part of life. My vote: zip your lip. [/ QUOTE ] Please provide me with this evidence that fat people live longer. I would like to bring taco bell and buffet gorges back into my diet. Your post seemed reasonable until you talked about fat people living on and on while healthy-weight people are dying.
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06-27-2007, 11:19 PM
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Re: Telling people they need to lose weight (or other unpleasant things).
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Were you brought up in a barn? I'm a skinny old (female) coot, and I still know that you never, ever tell people they need to lose weight, never, not unless you're their doctor. Guess what, dude, they already know they're fat. Do you seriously think these people are idiots? As far as living past 40, fat people live past 40 with no problem, it's anorexics who die in their 20s. When you reach my age, you'll feel pretty silly, because the fat people go on and on, and it's my skinny friends who keep conking over in their 50s. Fat people may die in their 60s, in which case they are not giving up the best part of life. My vote: zip your lip. [/ QUOTE ] Hahaha, you are an idiot.
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#16
06-28-2007, 12:56 AM
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Re: Telling people they need to lose weight (or other unpleasant thing
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[ QUOTE ] can we hijack this, to, say, how to tell your girl she gives bad head? (things that actually need to be said) [/ QUOTE ] lol at all you donkeys that don't talk about sex with your partners. [/ QUOTE ] hey I'm just trying to give a good thread hijack here to a lame OP. Don't be a douche in ElD forum. HU for bitches? how about this: A relative gives you a totally [censored] gift but you are super balla and would never use that crap. You just say "hey ma this is crap, take it back to Walmart."?
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#17
06-28-2007, 01:25 AM
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Re: Telling people they need to lose weight (or other unpleasant thing
"someone has to tell them how it is."
"but he knows he is obese and Im sure he wants to lose weight and knows the consequences." see no reason that for telling him. not out of politeness but bc pointing out the obv is annoying and useless. do you go around thinking of ways to say the sky is blue. sounds like you are looking for ways to motivate these guys to get skinny.
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06-28-2007, 01:55 AM
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Re: Telling people they need to lose weight (or other unpleasant thing
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Were you brought up in a barn? I'm a skinny old (female) coot, and I still know that you never, ever tell people they need to lose weight, never, not unless you're their doctor. Guess what, dude, they already know they're fat. Do you seriously think these people are idiots? As far as living past 40, fat people live past 40 with no problem, it's anorexics who die in their 20s. When you reach my age, you'll feel pretty silly, because the fat people go on and on, and it's my skinny friends who keep conking over in their 50s. Fat people may die in their 60s, in which case they are not giving up the best part of life. My vote: zip your lip. [/ QUOTE ] A. There are about a billion studies that have been done that would seem to demonstrate that the obese have higher proportion of health problems AT A YOUNGER AGE as well. B. Just because someone may know their fat doesn't mean their going to do something about it, and your showing an interest in helping them with what may very probably become a health problem is likely going to do way more good than harm. C. People really need to chill with what their willing to honestly say to others and being all freaked as to whether they will get offended. You can be honest with people without being hurtful. People tell each other to quit smoking all the time, explain to me how it IS SO MUCH MORE WRONG to tell them to stop eating so much and exercise?
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06-28-2007, 03:14 AM
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Re: Telling people they need to lose weight (or other unpleasant things).
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Were you brought up in a barn? I'm a skinny old (female) coot, and I still know that you never, ever tell people they need to lose weight, never, not unless you're their doctor. Guess what, dude, they already know they're fat. Do you seriously think these people are idiots? As far as living past 40, fat people live past 40 with no problem, it's anorexics who die in their 20s. When you reach my age, you'll feel pretty silly, because the fat people go on and on, and it's my skinny friends who keep conking over in their 50s. Fat people may die in their 60s, in which case they are not giving up the best part of life. My vote: zip your lip. [/ QUOTE ] are you one of those people who calls anyone with less then 15% body fat anorexic?
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