help out a loser (woman problem)

[seke2]

I do not think the new sticky is working.

FFS take a shot

[tpir]

looks like you are in luck today:

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...umber=10614138

and if that doesn't work, this might:

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/showflat.php?Cat=0&Number=73832194

[eastcoaster]

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I really hate awkward situations so aren't I just setting myself up for something really awkward if I make a pass? Heck, I don't want to get laid, ever .

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If you're not going to make a move, then you might as well go get yer balls cut off (if they're still attached) because from the sound of it, you are already halfway to having your first menstrual cycle.

[kibble420]

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I've never tried making a move on someone I was friends with.

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Have you tried making a move on someone you weren't friends with?

C'mon, seriously.

[danlux]

Hope she hasn't seen Chasing Amy:

Alyssa Jones: Why are we stopping?
Holden McNeil: Because I can't take this.
Alyssa Jones: Can't take what?
Holden McNeil: I love you.
Alyssa Jones: You love me?
Holden McNeil: I love you. And not, not in a friendly way, although I think we're great friends. And not in a misplaced affection, puppy-dog way, although I'm sure that's what you'll call it. I love you. Very, very simple, very truly. You are the epitome of everything I have ever looked for in another human being. And I know that you think of me as just a friend, and crossing that line is the furthest thing from an option you would ever consider. But I had to say it. I just, I can't take this anymore. I can't stand next to you without wanting to hold you. I can't, I can't look into your eyes without feeling that, that longing you only read about in trashy romance novels. I can't talk to you without wanting to express my love for everything you are. And I know this will probably queer our friendship - no pun intended - but I had to say it, because I've never felt this way before, and I don't care. I like who I am because of it. And if bringing this to light means we can't hang out anymore, then that hurts me. But God, I just, I couldn't allow another day to go by without just getting it out there, regardless of the outcome, which by the look on your face is to be the inevitable shoot-down. And, you know, I'll accept that. But I know...I know that some part of you is hesitating for a moment, and if there is a moment of hesitation, then that means you feel something too. All I ask, please, is that you just, you just not dismiss that - and try to dwell in it for just ten seconds. Alyssa, there isn't another soul on this [censored] planet who has ever made me half the person I am when I'm with you, and I would risk this friendship for the chance to take it to the next plateau. Because it is there between you and me. You can't deny that. Even if, you know, even if we never talk again after tonight, please know that I'm forever changed because of who you are and what you've meant to me, which - while I do appreciate it - I'd never need a painting of birds bought at a diner to remind me of.

[tehmatt]

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looks like you are in luck today:

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...umber=10614138

and if that doesn't work, this might:

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/showflat.php?Cat=0&Number=73832194

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in before ooinsight troll

[ooinsight]

OP what tpir meant to say was beedogs=game

[lameloser]

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I've never tried making a move on someone I was friends with.

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Have you tried making a move on someone you weren't friends with?

C'mon, seriously.

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Yes, but it's completely different making a move on a random chick I met out somewhere and making a move on a friend.

I really don't care if things end up awkward with random girl. I do care if things end up awkward with someone I considered a friend.

Now that I typed that, it doesn't make much sense, but it's just the way I feel.

[wh1t3bread]

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I really don't care if things end up awkward with random girl. I do care if things end up awkward with someone I considered a friend.


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You realize that doesn't make any sense right? In your OP you said your best idea was to cut off all communication with this girl entirely. That's even worse. So get over your fear and just do it.

Edit: Maybe I should read your whole post before responding as you do realize that doesn't make any sense. The 2nd part still applies. Get over your fear. Wouldn't you rather know than have that "what if" feeling forever?

[Triumph36]

the longer you put this off, the more difficult it will be to ladder jump - and ladder jumping's already very difficult.

i have no idea how you'll go about doing this, but i strongly suggest alcohol be involved