Moving in together - Page 2

unbluffable · #11 05-26-2007, 03:39 PM

so everyone is in agreement?

anybody disagree or am i headed for a catastrophe?

private joker · #12 05-26-2007, 04:14 PM

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so everyone is in agreement?

anybody disagree or am i headed for a catastrophe?

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You're 20. She's young too. People change a lot before they're 25. Everyone here advising you not to do this is speaking from experience. You don't need to move in with a girl to have a relationship with her, but if you want to experience the independence you need and freedom you want at this age, in this place, at this time of your life -- do not move in with her.

unbluffable · #13 05-26-2007, 04:22 PM

the only way i can date this girl right now is if she moves in with me

she can't just come and get her own place, plus there would be no point in moving.

unbluffable · #14 05-26-2007, 04:23 PM

btw, im not one of those ppl that asks for advice and promptly ignores it, especially since every poster in this respect is a man i respect.

xxThe_Lebowskixx · #15 05-26-2007, 05:13 PM

it will be more than likely end in catastrophe, but it might be pretty cool before that. if you dont bring her, you will eventually end up in a relationship with a local chick, its inevitable. if she comes, will she be able to get a job and have her own bread? what is she going to be doing there? are you sure she will enjoy it?

unbluffable · #16 05-26-2007, 05:15 PM

she's coming partly for me and partly for work

i hooked her up. she will be a manager of a brand new spa.

pete fabrizio · #17 05-26-2007, 06:04 PM

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she's coming partly for me and partly for work

i hooked her up. she will be a manager of a brand new spa.

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will you feel guilty if you break up in a couple months? if so, this is a terrible idea. if not, go for it.

unbluffable · #18 05-26-2007, 06:05 PM

i will not feel guilty.

no matter how ugly the break up would be we would still be good friends, if not best friends.

XXXNoahXXX · #19 05-26-2007, 07:04 PM

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no matter how ugly the break up would be we would still be good friends, if not best friends.

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you can't possibly believe this.

Go_Blue88 · #20 05-26-2007, 07:26 PM

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i will not feel guilty.

no matter how ugly the break up would be we would still be good friends, if not best friends.

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uhhh first of all, how can you possibly know whether or not you'll feel guilty? two-three months living together will presumably cause you to care about her a great deal.

secondly, you're not viewing the question in the correct light. you should consider whether you'd feel like a jackass for bringing a girl out to the Dominican all the way from Russia to start a new life and 2-3 months into it saying, "My bad, we should just be the bestest friends ever."

thirdly, you think her reaction to you saying "we should be the bestest friends ever," will be "OMG great! I'm so happy I came all the way from Russia!"