How long have you gone without sex in a relationship?

[Peter Harris]

In a relationship: a month, and for 3 of those weeks i was away. In another relationship: a month, and had sex with someone else while away cos i couldn't wait.

Out of a relationship: 18 month dry spell! I wanted to shoot someone with my dick. BLAP BLAP BLAP DRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

[Gildwulf]

If you don't count long distance, maybe 2 days.

If you count long distance...a month. My gf and I saw each other a ton though when I was doing long distance in Chicago....like 5 times a semester.

[William]

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If we count my ex who was a total prude, then we need more poll options. (p.s: never ever ever ever date a girl like this)

If we count my current gf, then a week. (she needed to recuperate... heh heh heh heh heh heh heh heh heh heh heh heh)

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Yep. I have had a week as well. ( I needed to recuperate ... heh heh heh heh heh etc... ) [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[PokerFink]

About two weeks, but only cuz she started on the pill and her system was all screwed up.

Other than that, a week, tops.

Edit: I'm 21, which might have something to do with it.

[astroglide]

every girl with whom i've held a long relationship has been willing to have sex at any time. i can't imagine this is that uncommon. it shocks me when people have been with somebody for 6+ months and they're talking in terms of "getting some" and whatever. so i have sex any time that i want to have sex, which is nowhere near 7 times a week. once or twice a month of vaginal intercourse is fine with me as with oral thrown around more frequently.

as a fun relationship thing, i decided to do something unique this month and have sex (at least oral with me going down on her too) every night. it has been a sort of bonding experience, and it certainly assures that you don't go to bed disconnected with your partner. i recommend trying it sometime for the mental benefits.

[Phoenix1010]

The first six months...

Not counting long distance or the cycle, about 4 or 5 days, but I could go longer. Others have made the point I was trying to make in the how freaky thread: When you get sex whenever you want it, it ceases to be such a huge concern.

[ScottieK]

One of my friends has an ex that would make him wait for three weeks or more to get some...something about making it hotter or whatever. She would actually set a date for it. He said it was great, but never worth the wait. I think waiting on purpose is BS.

ScottieK

[gorie]

i don't think i have ever had to say no to my boyfriend since we started having sex. we can easily go weeks without having sex sometimes. and over the 8 years of being together we've probably gone over a month more than once. but we did it twice yesterday... it all just depends, and isn't really an issue, he is happy and i am happy.

[Phoenix1010]

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One of my friends has an ex that would make him wait for three weeks or more to get some...something about making it hotter or whatever. She would actually set a date for it. He said it was great, but never worth the wait. I think waiting on purpose is BS.

ScottieK

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I think three weeks is excessive, but it's a decent idea every once in a while. Making it unavailable makes you want it more. Best sex is after a long time apart.

[Shajen]

all, let me let you in on what I thought wasn't a secret:

rather than go weeks without sex "to make it better", simply drop a hint in the AM that you're gonna rock their world that evening.

It works wonders, and gets them thinking about sex all day. Trust me.