Are your regrets due to being too passive or too aggressive?

[katyseagull]

I'm not sure I even understand what passive-aggressive means. Is that where you act nice but you secretly hate the other person?

[Wynton]

My non-googled definition of passive-aggressive: you manipulate someone into doing something by acting passive.

Like when you get your significant other to break up with you, simply by never calling them.

[Wes Mantooth]

Interesting thread. Different situations may call for one to be too passive or too aggressive. Overall, I don't think that I regret which approach I took in my situations... though I would regret if I did not take anything from how I acted in at those times and applied it as a learning experience toward future situations.

[Dominic]

if too lazy was a choice I'd choose that

[MatthewRyan]

I am pretty agressive by nature and can think of a lot of situation where, especially when younger, being too agressive has gotten me into trouble. However, that being said, my agression/drive has allowed me to get pretty much everything I've ever gone after (besides highstakes games wtf? [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img])