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01-26-2007, 06:53 PM
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Re: Girlfriend and Best friend ... LINE CHECK
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That was your roommate/friend's opinion and he is entitled to it. The fact that he said this to your gf means he wants to [censored] her.* Can you blame him for wanting to [censored] your girl? No, because he's a guy. I want to [censored] most of my friends' girls but I don't say it or try. You can blame him for this however -- douchebag move. It may have looked like your girl got angry over this but in reality it made her scared. Scared? Yes, because like all women she got emotional and irrational and it made her consider the possibility of you two not lasting which most girls can't stand the thought of. The fact that he would do this makes me think your relationship with him isn't as strong as it used to be. Can you confirm this? In this situation (since you live with him) I would sit down and rationally ask why he did this. Even though he may have spoken the truth I would ask why he felt the need to say this to your girl. There is a 1% chance that he wasn't trying to [censored] her and simply was having a [censored] day. If you girl gets mad that you spoke with him (as an adult would) then beat her ass with a bat and tell her to pipe down. * When I say that he was trying to [censored] her I mean he was planting the seed of your relationship meeting it's inevitable end and hastening that along so that he can jump in and beat that pussy up. [/ QUOTE ] There may be some kind of inherent desire to see guys break up with their gfs to expand the market, because if this guy really is a friend he'd be aware that she'll be off limits forever, and if she's a decent person she will know the same. 
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#14
01-26-2007, 07:00 PM
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Re: Girlfriend and Best friend ... LINE CHECK
Thank you sir, I know what it's like. I just posted last week about my best friend banging my ex, it's a hairy situation. However, as cliche as it is, to stoop to his level would only make it worse and they are both important people in your life.
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01-26-2007, 07:47 PM
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This person is not your friend. Friends don't do [censored] like that to friends. [/ QUOTE ] Agreed. The right line is to kick the [censored] out of him.
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#19
01-26-2007, 07:51 PM
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Re: Girlfriend and Best friend ... LINE CHECK
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[ QUOTE ] This person is not your friend. Friends don't do [censored] like that to friends. [/ QUOTE ] Agreed. The right line is to kick the [censored] out of him. [/ QUOTE ] While I agree he did F- up'd stuff, I have known him 15 years been friends for about 10, (I'm 24) and he is my roommate so I have to live with him no matter what I do. PLus we have the same friends and will still see each other out etc.
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#20
01-26-2007, 08:36 PM
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Re: Girlfriend and Best friend ... LINE CHECK
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] This person is not your friend. Friends don't do [censored] like that to friends. [/ QUOTE ] Agreed. The right line is to kick the [censored] out of him. [/ QUOTE ] While I agree he did F- up'd stuff, I have known him 15 years been friends for about 10, (I'm 24) and he is my roommate so I have to live with him no matter what I do. PLus we have the same friends and will still see each other out etc. [/ QUOTE ] The more I think about this, the more rediculous the people telling him to beat his roommates / friends [censored] or end the friendship / dump the girl really are. Don't get me wrong, I'm not ruling it out as a very reasonable option, but OP didn't even tell us exactly what was said other than 'he told her we wouldn't last'. I realize that I'm bashing myself with this next comment as well as I participate on this message board the same as everyone here, but this thread sounds like a bunch of young, idealistic, jerk offs who know nothing about life and relationships giving bad advice about a situation about which they are severly lacking facts.
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