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11-08-2007, 12:24 PM
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Re: Another relationship advice thread
These threads by rule suck, but this OP is one of the worst of it's kind.
OP, if things were stale, they aren't going to get unstale. I have no idea what the other girl has to do with anything, but it seems like somehow meeting her has led you to want to try to get back together with your ex. I can't figure out how this makes sense, but whatever...don't do it. Be single for a while. -McGee 
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#13
11-08-2007, 12:28 PM
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Re: Another relationship advice thread
To clarify im not dating girl #2, we are just talking, havent kissed or anything yet. Things were stale because i never made an effort ever to make them unstale. When you dont talk to the other person in any serious capacity for years, that kinda tends to happen
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#14
11-08-2007, 12:29 PM
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Re: Another relationship advice thread
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These threads by rule suck, but this OP is one of the worst of it's kind. [/ QUOTE ] I agree. I think threads like this should only be allowed to be made with real accounts. Gimmick accounts always raise suspicion in my mind as to if it's the same guy who starts these relationship threads every 2 days.
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#15
11-08-2007, 12:30 PM
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Re: Another relationship advice thread
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Things were stale because i never made an effort ever to make them unstale [/ QUOTE ] I'd argue that you never made an effort because things were stale. -McGee
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#16
11-08-2007, 12:30 PM
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Re: Another relationship advice thread
I only used a gimmick because my screen name also happens to be the city i live in which was dumb when i did that in the first place...
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#17
11-08-2007, 12:31 PM
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Re: Another relationship advice thread
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[ QUOTE ] These threads by rule suck, but this OP is one of the worst of it's kind. [/ QUOTE ] I agree. I think threads like this should only be allowed to be made with real accounts. [/ QUOTE ] I have raised this exact point on a number of occasions. We should get a petition going or something.
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#18
11-08-2007, 12:33 PM
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Re: Another relationship advice thread
Well four months in i went from sober and involved to smoking pot every day with my friends for months straight. Im guessing this didnt help matters either...Im not blaming pot i love pot, but my point is that for some reason i jumped ship a long time ago and i dont know if it was fear that things were so good, or just because things were not what i wanted...
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#19
11-08-2007, 12:46 PM
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Re: Another relationship advice thread
Follow your smaller brain...he knows best
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#20
11-08-2007, 12:48 PM
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Re: Another relationship advice thread
I was in a similar type situation. Dated a girl, was kind of hesitant to plan for the future, put it on autopilot and took her majorly for granted. Eventually we separated, and then I realized that I had [censored] up, really really badly.
Got back together, I don't take her for granted, and things are wonderful. I have not regretted the decision once. Still a bit scared of getting married, but I can't imagine my life without her. So I guess the question you have to ask yourself is why you want her back. If it's because you see the error of your ways, then definitely talk to her and maybe go to counseling together. You would just have to let her know that you are definitely committed to making it work. If it's just because you are lonely, or don't want to bang fatties, or life was more convenient with her, or whatever ... then I think you know the answer.
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