keeping the sex up in a LTR

[Bluffoon]

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Edit: Good example. I had one girlfriend who used to like to hold me while I peed. I'd end up peeing all over the place and we would both be cracking up. It was hilarious and very intimate.



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Yeah, this sounds about as intimate as you watching her squeeze out a big log.

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You sound like you are about as much fun as as an IRS audit.

[Yeti]

Great retort, I admit defeat. Happy peeing.

[CallMeIshmael]

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When I do those things around a boyfriend, it shows that I'm more comfortable. And when I'm more comfortable, the sex gets better.

However, in the long term, I don't think it's things like flossing and doing dishes together that will make a relationship mundane and ultimately kill it. That being said, there is no reason for him to be around when I'm shaving my cooch. That just isn't right.

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FWIW, of all the things you listed, watching you shave the cooch seems like it would be the MOST fun

[GMan42]

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Edit: Good example. I had one girlfriend who used to like to hold me while I peed. I'd end up peeing all over the place and we would both be cracking up. It was hilarious and very intimate.



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I don't think I could get it started with her holding it

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LOL, Same here. But then again I'm one of those guys who has trouble starting if there's someone standing at the next urinal, etc.

Anyway, I agree with the others in this thread, that not doing everyday stuff together is too -EV for the relationship to make up for any perceived improvement in sex life.

[FortunaMaximus]

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When I do those things around a boyfriend, it shows that I'm more comfortable. And when I'm more comfortable, the sex gets better.

However, in the long term, I don't think it's things like flossing and doing dishes together that will make a relationship mundane and ultimately kill it. That being said, there is no reason for him to be around when I'm shaving my cooch. That just isn't right.

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Let him shave the thing. It'll make for an interesting difference. Just a wild guess.

[drexah]

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When I do those things around a boyfriend, it shows that I'm more comfortable. And when I'm more comfortable, the sex gets better.

However, in the long term, I don't think it's things like flossing and doing dishes together that will make a relationship mundane and ultimately kill it. That being said, there is no reason for him to be around when I'm shaving my cooch. That just isn't right.

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I agree with the first part of this, my last serious relationship the sex just got better and better the more comfortable we got together (telling eachother what we wanted/fantasized about etc...) but where the hell did the shaving cooch thing come from? i dont see any relevance whatsoever. that actually almost negates your comment about being comfortable w/ someone. putting in a tampon > shaving cooch by a long shot IMO

[funkymunky]

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The best way I've found is to sleep with other people.

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This was the best answer.

[xxThe_Lebowskixx]

I think sleeping with other people is probably the only way to really make it last. Seriously.

[funkymunky]

I mean how many times can you have sex with a person, before you've seen it all?

[Glo]

If you can fart in front of a man and he doesn't leave you within a week/month (some say that it may be shorter than a week) he's a keeper...