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#11
02-12-2007, 09:26 AM
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Re: Asking out a girl
Why you so fixated on some German 'girl' who's almost 10 years older than you? Go for the Japanese girls who are your age.
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#12
02-12-2007, 10:07 AM
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Re: Asking out a girl
the "hey, are you busy.." is really bad and really seeking her approval. chicks dont dig that. you have to look busy and she has to want to be a part of your reality for it to really work.
she hasnt texted you back probably because you're not really a challenge, too much of a friend, etc. someone said it earlier but saying "i am doign this, come join me" is much better (even if you have no intention of grabbing lunch of wednesday at such place.) although her lack of response is bad, i would still try to get something going.. dont ask depserate and def do not ask if she got the text message.
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#13
02-12-2007, 10:27 AM
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Re: Asking out a girl
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Why you so fixated on some German 'girl' who's almost 10 years older than you? Go for the Japanese girls who are your age. [/ QUOTE ] Japanese girls are [censored] lame. And I like her, wtf kind of question is that? And yeah I got similar responses about the whole asking vs telling thing I guess it makes sense, as in it makes me more manly. I think our pretext equity is pretty similar either way since her english isn't perfect. But yeah in the future I'll definitely be more assertive and less pussy
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#14
02-12-2007, 11:25 AM
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Re: Asking out a girl
Does she know any of ur other friends yet?
do u have any other friends over there yet? (not trying to be an ass, but if i moved to japan it would take me a while to get some friends) Anyway go somewhere cool with ur friends and she if she wants to come. Have a few drinks (don't get to drunk if u really like her) and flirt with her/go for a kiss or whatever.... U'll be able to guage it a lot better after both of u have had a drink or two
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#15
02-12-2007, 11:26 AM
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Re: Asking out a girl
also does she know she's ten years older than you.... pic of urself and of her as well would be VERY helpful
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#16
02-12-2007, 11:41 AM
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Re: Asking out a girl
yeah she knows she's older
and the friend thing might not be a bad idea I made friends very quick, I could invite her along with a group of my friends maybe And no I'm not posting pics of either of us. I'm half chinese half german 19 year old, 5"10 and 120 pounds and self concious. I'm also not going to post pics of her because I believe it violates... something
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#20
02-12-2007, 11:52 AM
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Re: Asking out a girl
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Wow your 5 foot 10, 120 pounds. You must be the equivalent of a stick. [/ QUOTE ] well I was around 105 when I moved to Japan. I had a really bad opiate problem for about 8 months. I moved to Japan a week after the sick detox, I probably dropped about 40 pounds overall. I was also taking some speed. And both make you lose weight very fast. So that's my excuse.
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