Need PUA advice

[hoff21]

You need to bang her ASAP. Then one of two things will happen.
1.
She'll be emotionally attached, then you can do what you want (date, friends with benefits, etc).
2.
She thinks you're a bad lay and wants to bang John.

Either way you get yours.

[schwza]

getting into a relationship in the first week of college is like the worst possible thing to do.

[27offsuit]

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I just basically want to get close enough to her where I’m probably just a step above friends with benefits, but not boyfriend/girlfriend

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This place doesn't exist.


Also, you are 'the friend' who will never [censored] her. God damn, you already passed up two BJ slam dunks for Christ's sake. Forget it.

[mrjetguy]

I don't think she would have told you about waking up in some guy's apartment if she was currently interested in something serious. For the moment just take what you can get and see if things change.

[27offsuit]

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getting into a relationship in the first week of college is like the worst possible thing to do.

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this too

[supafrey]

Yeah seriously some of us are stuck in relationships to start, but my unhappiest friends are the ones who bought the first cow that was willing to give them some milk.

Literally. My buddy had sex with a cow.

Either way, it's pretty obv that this girl is a bit of a college skank - there's nothing wrong with this if you're interested in that. Something tells me she's not the "settling down" type if all she talks about is crashing at other boys' pads....

Become more detached/realize what's available in college OR you can sit there and pine for days and days while she "accidentally" ends up with guys who are more aggressive and willing to make a move.

But atleast.. you'll have conversation...?

[pokerbobo]

WTF OP? Even if you like her you can still bang.... Pull up your skirt. What does she have to do? draw a map of her box? Hit that.

[silver book]

i think ur problem is that you say jeez wayyyy to much. tone down the jeez, man.

[garcia1000]

In contrast with the typical male, your problem is that you don't think with your genitals enough.

[wet work]

While you're sitting around waiting to make a move she's going to be banging other guys who didn't. Just take her out, get drunk and bang the crap out of her. It's probably what she wants and if you don't do it somebody else will.