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#11
04-27-2007, 08:36 PM
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Re: Being friends with your girlfriend\'s exes?
But every time you see him looking at her he's probably thinking, "DAMN. I tore that ass up!"
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04-27-2007, 09:18 PM
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Re: Being friends with your girlfriend\'s exes?
Does it make a difference to people whether she left him or he left her?
I think it might be worse if he left her and she really wanted him back, etc. Higher likelihood for residual feelings/attraction.
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#13
04-27-2007, 10:27 PM
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Re: Being friends with your girlfriend\'s exes?
I am right now actually but it's easy for me.
I dated her all through high school, three years or so. After 5 years of not being in contact with each other we are dating again. They have a kid together so I really have no problem, and talk to him when he comes to pick up his son. I slept with her first so whatever.
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04-27-2007, 10:44 PM
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Re: Being friends with your girlfriend\'s exes?
I was once, but one night we all ended up getting really drunk together and I starting demanding that they [censored] in front of me. And after much heavy handed coercion on my part they agreed. But they refused to follow my ensuing and highly specified instructions. So I just left in the middle of it never to see them again.
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#15
04-27-2007, 10:53 PM
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Re: Being friends with your girlfriend\'s exes?
OP - I did this once, and it came back to bite me in the ass. 4 year relationship down the drain. I'd suggest not bothering, but I'm obviously biased.
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04-28-2007, 12:19 AM
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Re: Being friends with your girlfriend\'s exes?
[ QUOTE ]
I was once, but one night we all ended up getting really drunk together and I starting demanding that they [censored] in front of me. And after much heavy handed coercion on my part they agreed. But they refused to follow my ensuing and highly specified instructions. So I just left in the middle of it never to see them again. [/ QUOTE ] Wow.
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#17
04-28-2007, 01:35 AM
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Re: Being friends with your girlfriend\'s exes?
one of my girlfriend's exes is one of my best friends. however their relationship was very brief and he is very nonthreatening, and i could literally kick his ass with one hand behind my back.
her other ex stabbed me with a chef's knife, we are not on such good terms
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#18
04-28-2007, 02:14 AM
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Re: Being friends with your girlfriend\'s exes?
My last ex's brother is actually one of my closest friends right now -- works with me during the summer (I got him the job) and all. We are definetly tight, but I nearly refuse and try to avoid any kind of contact with his sister. Terribly awkward.
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04-28-2007, 05:29 AM
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Re: Being friends with your girlfriend\'s exes?
depends on how good the friend. no way you could if he was your best friend
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04-28-2007, 05:45 AM
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Re: Being friends with your girlfriend\'s exes?
[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ] I was once, but one night we all ended up getting really drunk together and I starting demanding that they [censored] in front of me. And after much heavy handed coercion on my part they agreed. But they refused to follow my ensuing and highly specified instructions. So I just left in the middle of it never to see them again. [/ QUOTE ] Wow. [/ QUOTE ] Yeah, totally sucks when your prude of a GF doesn't want to do multiple ATMs. I'd have done the same thing.
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