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Old 06-18-2007, 06:37 PM
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Not American. She is middle class and educated, lives in Mexico. She is somewhat religious. Thats what makes this more unusual.

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I'm not going to act like I know Mexicans because I've lived in SoCal for a month and a half, but if you ask me, there's nothing unusual about it now that you have stated that.

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Old 06-18-2007, 06:37 PM
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She probably always regretted not having another kid and this is some weird version of the mid life crisis.
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Old 06-18-2007, 06:41 PM
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How certain are you that she didn't already know before her daughter 'officially' told her?
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Old 06-18-2007, 06:58 PM
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in a lot of cultures having a child at that age is not unusual at all.

i used to work with some kids (mostly inner city, dominicans, other latinos, some blacks) who were always shocked that i had a long-term girlfriend and no kids at 23.
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Old 06-18-2007, 07:39 PM
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in a lot of cultures having a child at that age is not unusual at all.

i used to work with some kids (mostly inner city, dominicans, other latinos, some blacks) who were always shocked that i had a long-term lady friend and no kids at 23.

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Old 06-18-2007, 08:41 PM
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My girlfriend (now wife) gave birth to my little girl (now 6)when I was 17 yrs old. My wife was about 4 months pregnant when we told our parents. We just kept putting it off b/c we were scared to death.

Both of our parents were very supportive throughout the whole ordeal. I don't know what else good parents can do in that situation. My wife and I both went to college and got married at the end of my junior year. Without the help of our parents, I doubt this would have been possible.

BTW, everyone in our community was pretty shocked at the time. I was a 4.0 student and never in trouble. Abortion was never really an option for either my wife or I.
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Old 06-18-2007, 09:00 PM
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Not American. She is middle class and educated, lives in Mexico. She is somewhat religious. Thats what makes this more unusual.

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I'm not going to act like I know Mexicans because I've lived in SoCal for a month and a half, but if you ask me, there's nothing unusual about it now that you have stated that.

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I like how you quoted this, including the fact that you've lived in SoCal for a month and a half.
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Old 06-18-2007, 09:14 PM
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Prenatal care FTW.
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Old 06-18-2007, 09:24 PM
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My brother and his wife were 19 and 20, respectively, when she got pregnant. A little bit older, but the reactions of all the parents was the same, "yay baby!!"

When I asked my mom about it, she said "I'm worried about your brother, this will be so hard, but I am so excited to get a grandchild."

Perhaps your aunt feels the same way.
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Old 06-18-2007, 09:25 PM
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My girlfriend (now wife) gave birth to my little girl (now 6)when I was 17 yrs old. My wife was about 4 months pregnant when we told our parents. We just kept putting it off b/c we were scared to death.

Both of our parents were very supportive throughout the whole ordeal. I don't know what else good parents can do in that situation. My wife and I both went to college and got married at the end of my junior year. Without the help of our parents, I doubt this would have been possible.

BTW, everyone in our community was pretty shocked at the time. I was a 4.0 student and never in trouble. Abortion was never really an option for either my wife or I.

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Why?
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