Infidelity

[slim]

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The Chinaman's parenting is not the issue here, dude.

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wow, a racist mod.

[slim]

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slim,

Seriously, see a pro instead of typing on 2+2.

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I've already stated in my previous posts that I do have a therapist.

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Like I said, it has nothing to do with how great a guy I am, it has everything to do with how poor her life will be.

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Ugh, well you keep on thinking that Sparky, and keep multiplying 90% by 80% by 2% and carrying the one and so on, all while Bizhub Boy keeps bending her over the copier.

I'm only posting crap like that because your posts are long and super delusional and I'm angry at myself for having read them. I do sincerely hope you move on though and the kids don't suffer as a result of all of this.

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Ok so I'm delusional but my wife who threw away her family for an old man is rational. You're smart.

[gumpzilla]

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The Chinaman's parenting is not the issue here, dude.

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wow, a racist mod.

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Your ignorance of the Big Lebowski will be the final straw in this thread.

Probably not, but it's fun to pretend.

[RunDownHouse]

slim,

Fire your therapist and find one that doesn't rely on marriagebuilders.com.

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Eight things I know:

1. She doesn't love you.
2. You don't love her.
3. Your marriage was an empty soulless shell for a long time before she strayed, and that bothers you so little that you want to go back to the exact circumstances that encouraged her to risk all her friends and family in the first place.
4. If someday her relationship with this guy ends and she makes an overture to you, she will spend one evening with you then go home and cry for two days.
5. If she comes back at any point you will drag each other and your kids into an abyss of despair deeper than all human comprehension.
6. You're keeping yourself above water with a white-knuckle grip on your all-consuming rage and pain. Get therapy.
7. Your kids aren't broken or even close to hopeless, but they need your help and you can't help them until you accept that your wife wants nothing to do with you, the guy she doesn't love at all, at all ever again for any reason whatsoever and get some help for yourself.
8. Right now you're trying to win an argument with your wife. You can't. It takes two parties to argue, and she has quit the game.

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I've already read about all the stuff that you so eloquently point out.

[TheRedRocket]

It seems the real issue slim has is not just that his wife strayed but she chose to have sex with an "old man" who is "almost bald" and he can't reconcile what that says about him.

[Anacardo]

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The Chinaman's parenting is not the issue here, dude.

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wow, a racist mod.

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We're not talking about the guys who built the railroads here, man. We're talkin' about the guy who peed on my [censored]' rug.

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Ok so I'm delusional but my wife who threw away her family for an old man is rational. You're smart.

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LOL, I never said anything she did is/was rational. What I am saying is that it doesn't matter!

Also, I'm not a racist. Well I don't think so anyway. That was a Big Lebowski reference. (EDIT: I see gumpzilla pointed this out.)

[adsman]

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The Chinaman's parenting is not the issue here, dude.

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Tup, please ... Asian-American is the preferred nomenclature.