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#122
08-30-2007, 01:08 PM
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Re: Infidelity
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[ QUOTE ] (loveless but stable...few fights, no financial problems) [/ QUOTE ] This is your biggest hurdle. Loveless does NOT equal stable. Fights are normal for a marriage, money is just that-money. It means nothing to kids...love does. [/ QUOTE ] Loveless as in not "in love".....there's a big difference. 
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#123
08-30-2007, 01:09 PM
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Dids, RedBean is a sharp cat but his man-love for Barry Bonds is unacceptable IMO. slim's so deep in the denial phase about some of this stuff is sad and laughable, and hopefully one day he'll be able to look at what he wrote here and have a hearty LOL about it. Also slim, you responded to my post upthread about where the blame should lie. If you really were blameless then good for you, you have no guilt to carry forward and I hope you find a better partner in the future. I was just trying to drill down for the reasons that she was getting railed by her boss - probably on his desk, in his tenth story office overlooking the city, up against the glass, in the conference room, on the Bizhub, etc. - and thought the mirror may be one of the places to look. [/ QUOTE ] denial about what?
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#125
08-30-2007, 01:14 PM
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Re: Infidelity
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I'll give an unlimited bar tab to anyone who can successfuly derail this thread. [/ QUOTE ] Throw in a conversation with a ninja and NT! will lock it for ya.
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#126
08-30-2007, 01:20 PM
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Re: Infidelity
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[ QUOTE ] I'll give an unlimited bar tab to anyone who can successfuly derail this thread. [/ QUOTE ] Throw in a conversation with a ninja and NT! will lock it for ya. [/ QUOTE ] How dare you....
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#128
08-30-2007, 02:14 PM
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Re: Infidelity
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] (loveless but stable...few fights, no financial problems) [/ QUOTE ] This is your biggest hurdle. Loveless does NOT equal stable. Fights are normal for a marriage, money is just that-money. It means nothing to kids...love does. [/ QUOTE ] Loveless as in not "in love".....there's a big difference. [/ QUOTE ] Your point? I know there's a difference...I was addressing the "not in love" part.
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#129
08-30-2007, 02:16 PM
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[ QUOTE ] The human beast does not mate for life and we should stop assuming otherwise. [/ QUOTE ] Sure it does. All the [censored] time. [/ QUOTE ]
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#130
08-30-2007, 02:37 PM
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Re: Infidelity
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] (loveless but stable...few fights, no financial problems) [/ QUOTE ] This is your biggest hurdle. Loveless does NOT equal stable. Fights are normal for a marriage, money is just that-money. It means nothing to kids...love does. [/ QUOTE ] Loveless as in not "in love".....there's a big difference. [/ QUOTE ] Your point? I know there's a difference...I was addressing the "not in love" part. [/ QUOTE ] my point is that a marriage where the parents are not "in love" but get along and take good care of the kids is much better than a divorce where the kids bounc around between 2 homes with a new "parents" and step siblings even if their mother and/or father is "in love" with their new partner.
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