Best friend slept with girl of my dreams, what SHOULD I do? - Page 13

samjjones · #**121** 06-22-2007, 11:27 AM

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That's him.

That's me

(the girl with him is not said-girl).

As reluctant as I feel about posting her pic, guess I could really give a [censored] anyway. So here she is.

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slappy0 · #**122** 06-22-2007, 11:27 AM

1. Get buddy drunk.
2. Have sex with buddy.
3. Buddy sexes girl -> You sex buddy == you sex girl.
4. Take pix - humilate buddy.
5. Profit?

Austiger · #**123** 06-22-2007, 11:29 AM

Burd- Your friend looks gay. Are you sure she wasn't just practicing BJs on him?

Also- take your pic down before you regret it.

Borodog · #**124** 06-22-2007, 11:32 AM

Poofler · #**125** 06-22-2007, 11:35 AM

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Burd- Your friend looks gay. Are you sure she wasn't just practicing BJs on him?

Also- take your pic down before you regret it.

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TxSteve · #**126** 06-22-2007, 11:37 AM

i agree,

my first impression was that your friend looks gay

could the girl be a pre-op tranny with penis still attached and functional?

Phil153 · #**127** 06-22-2007, 11:40 AM

After seeing those pictures I'm going out on a limb here and say:

- Friend is top shelf dick.
- The couch is not the place for you to get girls. Pull the class card, go to a nice restaurant, see some arthouse flick.
- She looks endearing and impressionable.

Props on posting pics.

jedi · #**128** 06-22-2007, 11:40 AM

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Also- take your pic down before you regret it.

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Yup, it's Photoshop time!

JackInDaCrak · #**129** 06-22-2007, 11:43 AM

DrewDevil · #**130** 06-22-2007, 11:44 AM

Burdz, I was 100% on your side and thought your friend was a worthless douchebag until I read this:

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Guess I'm a pussy, but I had no desire to bang her. I sincerely liked her, that's what made it far harder for me to make a move unfortunately, even if that excuse sucks; if I just thought she was hot I wouldn't care about rejection as much and would just go for it. Making out was my goal, I don't set the bar very high for myself obv. Foolish of me to want a relationship, them the breaks. If that's stuck in HS, then so be it.

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There are so many things that don't make sense here.

You didn't want to bang her because you liked her and wanted a relationship? WTF that makes no sense. Do you only have sex with girls you DON'T like?

What is your idea of a "relationship," anyway, just holding hands and making out? What is this, 8th grade? I got news for you, pal, college girls want to get [censored] in a relationship. And BTW having sex with someone is pretty much the defining feature of a relationship anyway.

If you don't make a move on the girls you really like and don't want to have sex with the girls you want to have a relationship with, then you have it EXACTLY BACKWARDS. D U C Y?

It's quite possible that the girl got horny but realized you were not going to make a move on her, and decided YOU weren't into HER, so she went looking for some alternate dick. Or maybe she just liked your friend better from the start. It doesn't matter. Point is, if you don't at least act like you want to have sex with girls, you're going to have a really tough time having sex. Or a relationship. Or keeping your friends from tapping the ass you don't want to.

I still think your friend is kind of a jerk for not talking to you about the situation, or confirming that you had no chance with this particular girl, but it is hard to blame him--or her--for their actions if you weren't even trying to have sex with her despite the best of all possible sexing situations.

Anyway, talk to your friend and clear the air, or write him off. Get a new friend and/or a different girl to have sex with. Maybe pick a girl you hate or something.