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Old 06-29-2007, 07:47 PM
The Yugoslavian The Yugoslavian is offline
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ED, I gave pbob a little backrub at the poker table just the other day. The problem though is he's not really huge on personal hygiene, he was wearing an old ratty tshirt, hadn't shaved in days, and who knows when he last took a shower. When I give guys rubdowns, I really like it if they shower right before, brush their teeth (a mint is nice too), and otherwise get "dolled up" so to speak.

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Scented candles are also really nice and relaxing. Treat yourself to the adventure of some lavender or cinammon!

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Standard.

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Old 06-29-2007, 07:47 PM
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Blarg,

"Scented candles are also really nice and relaxing."

In my experience, this sends the wrong message to guys who are new to the backrub group. I would suggest for the first few times you do this, and whenever new guys are joining the group, to skip the candles. Once everyone is more comfortable with each other, introduce the candles to the group. Definitely is calming and relaxing, helps get into that sweet zen vibe before hitting the bars to pick up some honeys.
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Old 06-29-2007, 07:48 PM
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LFS,

See my reply to Blarg directly above. Things like scented candles can definitely be sorta queer without the proper context.
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Old 06-29-2007, 07:50 PM
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Blarg,

"Scented candles are also really nice and relaxing."

In my experience, this sends the wrong message to guys who are new to the backrub group. I would suggest for the first few times you do this, and whenever new guys are joining the group, to skip the candles. Once everyone is more comfortable with each other, introduce the candles to the group. Definitely is calming and relaxing, helps get into that sweet zen vibe before hitting the bars to pick up some honeys.

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I've found that it works fine as long as you make sure your new friends have had a chance to experience a Zima or two while high-fiving.

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Old 06-29-2007, 08:02 PM
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El D -- You're probably right that it's best to keep the initial backrubs to just a taste, to get you in the mood to go pick up those honeys.
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Old 06-29-2007, 08:05 PM
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You might also want to talk about football or transmissions or something during the first few sessions.
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Old 06-29-2007, 08:06 PM
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Blarg,

Exactly. I just don't want to have people misinterpret any of these posts and start accidentally doing [censored] stuff when all we're trying to do here is help people get ready to meet some honeys. (censored word starts w/ ho and ends w/ mo)
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Old 06-29-2007, 08:17 PM
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hoppopotamo?
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Old 06-29-2007, 08:18 PM
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Thank you Blarg. These things can happen to a guy without me being a total douchebag and a sexual predator. I'm just a normal guy, who has had a few successes with women, but still goes through alot of the struggles that other guys do.

I'd definetely say that I have less success with women than the average guy. Even though I've been able to close the deal very quickly with women, I can also say my count is far less than average.
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Old 06-29-2007, 08:22 PM
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amp and others,

Just to clarify, the hotness of guys involved shouldn't really be a factor here. The idea for the backrubs before going out is not for anything sexual or anything. It's just a good way for a group of guys to chill out and feel closer and more confident and relaxed before hitting the town to get some honeys.

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El D -

Have you ever worked in advertising? You could sell me on anything. And I mean anything!! wink nudge gayhaha
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