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11-24-2007, 05:39 PM
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] So her grandfather died after alot of hospitalizations, and she definatley saw it coming and so did her family but she isn't taking it well. I have to drive awhile and meet her family, which i've never done, and I really don't want to go. We aren't very serious. Is it -ev to just say "I don't want to go." and be honest? I don't think lying is a good line... and I wouldn't expect her to attend a wake for my family and I doubt I would even invite her unless she knew the family member. need help =-0 [/ QUOTE ] If you don't want to break up, go. If you do, then be honest, then break up with her in a couple of weeks. [/ QUOTE ] What if I don't want to break up and I don't want to go? To be honest if she dumps me because of this, then she coudn't think too much of me the first place. [/ QUOTE ] You are failing to see this from her point of view. She clearly thinks that you should be there to support her. 
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11-24-2007, 05:42 PM
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
It is uncomfortable, but you should go.
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11-25-2007, 04:20 PM
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
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It is uncomfortable, but you should go. [/ QUOTE ] Absolutely. It's a funeral; don't be shallow. This isn't about you, it's about your G/F and her family. Besides, you'll score points later on if the relationship leads to anything. And if it's a grandmother, it's not like 100 people are going to be sobbing and devestated. You'll be able to meet people who weren't close but are there for support. It's not like it's a 12 year old kid that was run over by a car.
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