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you will make up for in maturity, experience and stability. [/ QUOTE ] Ha ha. My GF would laugh at this idea. I'm more like a 12 year old...just with a rapidly receding hair-line. More 'little kid' in many ways than I am 'mature adult'. |
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Re: Do you want to have children?
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[ QUOTE ] you will make up for in maturity, experience and stability. [/ QUOTE ] Ha ha. My GF would laugh at this idea. I'm more like a 12 year old...just with a rapidly receding hair-line. More 'little kid' in many ways than I am 'mature adult'. [/ QUOTE ] Even better for when they are < 13. Afer that it won't matter what you do. The pod people steal them and replace them with their teenagers. |
#43
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pure love and adoration for 10-12 years sounds pretty awesome to me.
like a dog, but you get to do more molding. |
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Re: Do you want to have children?
I have been married for alomost 10 years now, and never really wanted kids, but my wife did badly. I wanted to make her happy, so we tried and tried for years. After not getting anywhere we went through IVF. We ended up having triplets. They will be 2 in January. I am 40, and tired all the time. I didnt really want one, but would have been ok with it. Now we have 3. After almost 2 years with them, I cannot imagine my life without them. You say the way you feel now, I did the same. They came along, and everything changed. Not because it HAD to change, but because my feelings changed. If you let it happen, and it does, you may find your self loving it. You can still be a man, and do "man" things, but you will suddenly find that you cannot wait to get home to see the smiling faces, and the little ones running to you with thier arms wide open.....GL with whatever you decide. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]
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We ended up having triplets. They will be 2 in January. [/ QUOTE ] Are you planning to eat one of them on new year´s day? |
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Re: Do you want to have children?
The wife and I have a 5 month old, we're 29. I never really wanted kids, she wanted them from day 1, I finally came around to the idea and we had one.
I was never a baby person. I was more of a toddler person. Once the kid started walking/talking/playing catch, etc. I thought they were cool. However, having a baby is the most exciting and stimulating thing ever. They're sponges, and given the right guidance they'll grow up to be exceptional people. Having that responsibility is so scary/rewarding nothing compares. There's nothing like hearing your child laugh for the first time, and there's nothing worse than going three straight months without more than 3 straight hours of sleep. Anyway, it's way different when it's your own child. I never thought I'd talk funny to him, or whatever, but when you do and they smile, it's absolutely incredible. |
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[ QUOTE ] We ended up having triplets. They will be 2 in January. [/ QUOTE ] Are you planning to eat one of them on new year´s day? [/ QUOTE ] No, I will wait till the day they try and reverse your lobotomy [img]/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img] |
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Re: Do you want to have children?
I figure there are too many people on this planet already... why should I add more? I've never heard a convincing argument to have children but I'm always willing to listen.
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Need more parents to post in this so they convince all you idiots that kids are likely the most rewarding part of your life.
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I want girls. Not enough parents encourage their girls to grow up to be good, wholesome sloots and I'd like to do my part to fix that problem.
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