*OFFICIAL* Sexytime Containment Thread

[OrigamiSensei]

I gotcha GA. Just describing the mental process of the eternally friend zoned guy which I'm all too familiar with. Eight years of friend-zoned hell through high school and college because I lacked the cojones to either close the deal or move on. Thank heaven I'm long married and don't have to put up with this stuff anymore.

In any case the facts remain - she'll have to either move the last 5% herself or officially friend zone the guy and move on. It's obvious the next step is up to her. Only she can decide if he's worthy or not.

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He has also mentioned reticence about dating girls he's been friends with because that's what happened in his last relationship (although they had known each other for about 7 years) and it messes things up.

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dbz, this is a simply a defense mechanism. It is a complete and utter lie on his part. I would bet good money on this. He may even genuinely think he thinks that but when push comes to shove that little scruple will go out the window.

[divides_by_zero]

I'm not even sure he's into me! The problem is our professional and personal lives are so intertwined I can't tell the difference. And then realizing he's been frustrated because of the other chick was a pretty big blow.

He's dated, he's had girls, it stands to reason that if there's a girl he's interested in he knows how to demonstrate it. Ergo, if he hasn't for me, then he's not interested.

But, I'll have an opportunity to get him alone tonight. I have cigars!

[Georgia Avenue]

You may be right, but by her description he may actually be wavering about whether to date her or not. TBH he may be thinking of her as a done deal, and wants to keep his options open. He just got out of a relationship I hear, and he may feel that dbz is gf material but not a fbuddy type and doesn't want to mess up his friendship by hitting/quitting. I've been there before, and once I actually rejected a friend who told me that she liked me. Of course, she did it by telling me in like a "let's have a talk" kinda way, rather than just leaping one me, which I 100% would have caved in to.

So your advice stands: dbz should move in, but beware that it could be less serious for this dude.

Or my read could be wrong and he's really just a big pussy who is pining away for the DiBZ. (New nickname, imo)

[Eurotrash]

GA, tall broads that are math majors and 2nd amendment fans aren't exactly falling from the sky imo.

[Georgia Avenue]

I makes it rain, sucka.

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GA, tall broads that are math majors and 2nd amendment fans aren't exactly falling from the sky imo.

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We got into an exchange of mathematician, physicist, scientist/engineer jokes at the bar. That's sort of like nerd sexytime.

[Eurotrash]

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GA, tall broads that are math majors and 2nd amendment fans aren't exactly falling from the sky imo.

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We got into an exchange of mathematician, physicist, scientist/engineer jokes at the bar. That's sort of like nerd sexytime.

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dbz, there should be a line of men around the corner waiting to beat your door down. pls don't waste your time with this clown.

also, do you want the Sig P220 or a 1911?

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dbz, there should be a line of men around the corner waiting to beat your door down. pls don't waste your time with this clown.

also, do you want the Sig P220 or a 1911?

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But I likes him. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

After doing extensive research, I have determined that the P220 is prettier. So gimme that one. It goes with my shoes.

[Eurotrash]

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But I likes him. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

After doing extensive research, I have determined that the P220 is prettier. So gimme that one. It goes with my shoes.

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imo even the most logical can have their judgment clouded. so i tried to illustrate better for you what i'm saying.


btw, the 1911 has rosewood grips that i think you would like. you might want to reconsider.

[PITTM]

lol u think ur gonna woo her with handguns? pshawww.