Love-life - Girl probably on the rebound - What to do?

chadmack · #1 10-07-2007, 11:49 PM

hi goofyballer

mlagoo · #2 10-07-2007, 11:54 PM

sounds like you shoulda closed A LOT earlier. at this point youre probably just going to be really awkward around her because you want to hook up and she wants to be friends, so the next time she says something like "i just want to be friends," respond with something like "well i want to be more than friends, so give me a call when youre ready." you cant let yourself get thrown into that friend zone real early, or it will take like months of friendship then a lot of alcohol to dig yourself out.

also dont be such a pussy, girls like to have sex too, they just feel slutty being the aggressor. if i girl is showing interest, close. its not being an [censored] to have sex with a girl just because shes drunk. girls like to drink and hook up too. hooking up is fun.

Conspire · #3 10-07-2007, 11:55 PM

No one respects a gimmick account, thats why they are gimmicks. Repost this under your real name so we can all laugh at you.

Twistofsin · #4 10-07-2007, 11:57 PM

I think she just wanted a piece of your ass and your behavior is turning her off now.

fraserbrown · #5 10-08-2007, 12:08 AM

At least when I make a post making light of what a [censored] up I am with girls I use my real account.

tarheeljks · #6 10-08-2007, 12:57 AM

just back off since she explicitly stated that she didn't want to be more than friends. if she changes her mind you will here from her again

DanielleRB · #7 10-08-2007, 03:55 PM

There is a book out there that may be appropriate for you to read - even though it is a chick book...."He (she) is just not that into you."

Sorry, but the only thing you may get is laid if she is drunk and horny one night...

(just a woman's perspective on your situation)

ScandieManiac · #8 10-09-2007, 02:06 AM

Just a quick post to tell you all (well...most of you...) that you were mostly wrong... My doorbell rang yesterday, when I was just sitting around watching TV, and I was pretty surprised to see her when I opened the door. She stood there with a big smile, a bottle of wine in one hand, and a stack of DVD's in the other hand.

And, well....she's in my bathroom right now, and I'm about to make us some breakfast before we go to school. Sort of a breakthrough, huh...? [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

diebitter · #9 10-09-2007, 02:09 AM

WHAT?

WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON!

diebitter · #10 10-09-2007, 02:10 AM

Did you keep her talking till 4:21am?