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Old 05-09-2006, 04:32 PM
kibble420 kibble420 is offline
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Default Re: What percentage of OOT has cheated on a Significant Other?

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Actually I have been very loyal to my girl friend now.

In my earily twenties I learned how unrealistic a relationship is at this age. I was with my highschool sweet heart for 5 years. She went off to collage and well it eventually fell apart.

Why?

Zero life experiance. It was not that we were not in love. We loved each other very much but we were missing out on life.

If you are 25 years old or younger and are in a commited relationship, you are missing out.

This is my personal opinion.

I mean seriously how do you even know what you are looking for, You dont even know who you are yet.

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I agree with most of what you're saying. But that is not justification for cheating. If you want to go fool around, at least break up with your girl first.

Of course this assumes you are a person with ethics.
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Old 05-09-2006, 04:40 PM
Gildwulf Gildwulf is offline
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Default Re: What percentage of OOT has cheated on a Significant Other?

Just like everything there are exceptions to the rule and different strokes for different folks. Saying "I'm under 25, which means I can't have a good relationship so I should just stick my penis in anything that moves" works for some people. Other people get a lot of value out of serious relationships. Making one blanket rule for everyone under a certain age is just dumb, though.
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Old 05-09-2006, 05:01 PM
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Default Re: What percentage of OOT has cheated on a Significant Other?

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I agree with most of what you're saying. But that is not justification for cheating. If you want to go fool around, at least break up with your girl first.

Of course this assumes you are a person with ethics.

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I have always cut the girl I was with loose after the fact.

In fact I cheated on my ex who I was head over heels in love with.

People say being drunk is not an excuse however it was very much the case this time. Hell I did not even sleep with girl I cheated with on my ex.

I was so guilty I could not even look her in the eyes let alone tell her what I did.

I broke up with her with out giving her the real reason why.

yeah so what I am a pussy

Today that still is the single biggest mistake of my life.

Fortunately for me it lead me to the wonderful woman I am with today.

I am sure what goes around comes around and my day will come.
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Old 05-09-2006, 05:02 PM
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Default Re: What percentage of OOT has cheated on a Significant Other?

I cheated only when I learned one of my girlfriends had cheated on me. Didnt [censored] anyone to my knowledge but even if it's a kiss you still should get slapped. What did I do to her? I hooked up with two people she absolutely hated and one of her best friends.
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Old 05-09-2006, 05:37 PM
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Default Re: What percentage of OOT has cheated on a Significant Other?

You don't deserve to have a significant other if you cheat. And, personally, I don't think any form of cheating is an "accident". Avoid situations that cause those "accidents" if you can't trust yourself.
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Old 05-09-2006, 06:10 PM
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Default Re: What percentage of OOT has cheated on a Significant Other?

No. If I wanted to cheat I would leave.
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Old 05-09-2006, 06:29 PM
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Default Re: What percentage of OOT has cheated on a Significant Other?

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You don't deserve to have a significant other if you cheat.

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who deserves what is not for you to decide.
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Old 05-09-2006, 06:30 PM
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Default Re: What percentage of OOT has cheated on a Significant Other?

Why doesn't kissing count? It should.
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Old 05-09-2006, 06:44 PM
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Default Re: What percentage of OOT has cheated on a Significant Other?

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You don't deserve to have a significant other if you cheat.

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who deserves what is not for you to decide.

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true wrt the verbage, but I think posters point that "if you cheat you suck" is valid. No one is telling you to be monogomous. [censored] whoever, whenever you want. That's your decision. Just have the common decency not to lie to someone that you allegedly care about. If you're not going to be a one woman guy, then don't tell one woman that you're her guy. Its not morality, its decency.

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Old 05-09-2006, 07:40 PM
Stagemusic Stagemusic is offline
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Default Re: What percentage of OOT has cheated on a Significant Other?

26+ years with the same woman and not even once. I agree with a couple of posters above. If I wanted to cheat, I would leave.
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