Should I have a second kid?

[tuq]

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My wife says Im a selfish jerk. She is a cynical B*tch about everything and everyone

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I'm sure having another kid will fix this aspect of her personality. I say go for it.

[kyleb]

Don't have another kid, I already pay enough in FICA as it is.

[NT!]

i liked the old picture of jodie better, her face looks a little horsey in that one

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constently bad mouths OOTers(whore).

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BTW, serious question, exactly why/how does this ever come up? Do you talk with her about us? Is she a registered member?

"Honey, you won't BELIEVE what Anacardo posted today."
"Who cares? He's an emo loser."

"And then tup made this post..."
"What a loser, 8000 posts in a year and a half. I bet he couldn't get laid in a morgue."

"And THEN NT! locked a whole bunch of threads for no reason."
"Bowling without thumbs is for gays."

Etc.

[dlk9s]

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Im not a [censored]

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Based on your posts in this thread, I seriously doubt this.

[btmagnetw]

wtf get a [censored] divorce

[revots33]

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Good point:
ME WIFE
27 age 23
5'7" height 5'
155 weight 109
Im middle management at a superstore and on the "fasttrack" meaning Im not a [censored] so within five years I will make a solid living(6 figure) if I don't change careers. I am currently satisfied with my life and job and a happy person in general. My wife says Im a selfish jerk. She is a cynical B*tch about everything and everyone and constently bad mouths OOTers(whore). She also finds any excuse to avoid employment and spends money like a m-fer. She is however a good caring mother, and better looking arm candy than my friends wives. (I will try to post a pic if I can figure it out, not NSFW though ) She also allows me to do what I want most the time, is deathly honest and loyal, and gives it up whenever I want. She would not attempt to get pregnant for more money under any circumstance so that is out the window. So is it worth working at?

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Wow she sounds great. Seriously, divorce ftw. She sounds like one of those women who wants another kid every time she starts to get bored.

And FWIW I've never heard of a rocky marriage being improved by another kid. Kids are great and all, but every study conducted has shown that kids add stress and decrease marital satisfaction. Which means you need a strong marriage in the first place to have kids, which it sounds like you don't have.

[RiverFenix]

Deserves a *

Also a poll would be nice seeing as bringing another child into the world should be based on what OOT thinks.

[mbillie1]

[I.Rowboat]

Newsflash: two kids are SIGNIFICANTLY more work than one kid. We have two; I speak from experience. I could not imagine raising two kids if my relationship with my wife wasn't 100% solid.



Oh, and your wife's swung from wanting a divorce to wanting a second child in a two week span? She's got some serious issues that need resolution; encourage her to seek therapy or counseling. Adding another kid to this picture will only make things much, much worse.