Got my results today; me-...her+, what would you do?

[mondo]

OP,

This is nothing to worry about.... As the various posters have cited, MOST of us have been exposed to HSV-1, which manifests itself in the form of a cold sore, which is often triggered by stress or some other factor which triggers an immuno-suppression, allowing the virus to emerge.


Other than the obvious physical unattractiveness, it is truly not a big deal. Most people who are symptomatic recognize the precursor "tingle", and can start meds which significantly reduce the duration and/or development of the cold sore.

She can transmit the virus when "shedding" but still asymptomatic, but if you are immune (very likely), there is again, nothing to worry about.

In short, you'll be fine..... think of it as an inconvenience.... certainly nothing to end a relationship over.

peace, mondo