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Standard girl situation
Last night was date #2 and we ended up making out for a while at the end. Somehow it eluded me on the first date but it turns out she is much less attractive than originally thought. Only problem is she likes me a lot, while I am somewhere between liking her a little and not at all. Also, as she left, she made a comment that basically meant she'll be expecting me to ask her out some time soon, when I don't really have that intention.
Given that its not my style to just never talk to her again, what my play? There's nothing really wrong with her, but she is average in terms of looks, and her personality is nice, but not really what I'm looking for. Also, I've talked with my ex a little recently about getting back together (we've been really good friends since we broke up)and I think this might work out. Suggestions for stopping the bleeding before it starts? Edit-- SIIHP hit and run involving alcohol is out of the question because I'm 18, don't drink, and we have a lot of mutual friends. |
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Re: Standard girl situation
look it happens all the time, you get a little drunk, meet a girl then later find out that she isn't as attractive as you thought. but as long as she isn't terribly ugly then you need to have sex with her before you get rid of her.
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Re: Standard girl situation
It highly depends on how often you'll have to see her etc. Maybe just be honest and say "I think you're a cool girl but I still have feelings for my ex etc. and we might get back together."
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Re: Standard girl situation
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look it happens all the time, you get a little drunk, meet a girl then later find out that she isn't as attractive as you thought. lose her ph# and let it be [/ QUOTE ] |
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Re: Standard girl situation
Just be honest with her and tell her you really want to sleep with her but anything past that is just too big of a commitment for you.
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Re: Standard girl situation
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It highly depends on how often you'll have to see her etc. Maybe just be honest and say "I think you're a cool girl but I still have feelings for my ex etc. and we might get back together." [/ QUOTE ] |
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Re: Standard girl situation
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[ QUOTE ] It highly depends on how often you'll have to see her etc. Maybe just be honest and say "I think you're a cool girl but I still have feelings for my ex etc. and we might get back together." [/ QUOTE ] [/ QUOTE ] |
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Re: Standard girl situation
You don't need to say anything or do anything in particular. Just see her when you see her, and [censored] her when you want to [censored] her. Don't need to plan it out. You have control to leave the relationship any time you like, there is no need to plan it out. She will decide for herself by how you are treating her to keep likeing you or not. Just flow with it.
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Re: Standard girl situation
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] It highly depends on how often you'll have to see her etc. Maybe just be honest and say "I think you're a cool girl but I still have feelings for my ex etc. and we might get back together." [/ QUOTE ] [/ QUOTE ] [/ QUOTE ] |
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Re: Standard girl situation
"I like you as a friend."
I think we should see other people." "I no speak English." "I'm married to the sea." "I don't want to kill you, but I will." and of course... "Six simple words. I'm not gay, but I'll learn." |
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