Ask me about breaking my engagement (and why maybe you should too)

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Often times when someone has an affair,even non-sexual, they magnify all the negatives and minimize the positives of their partner and vice versa with the affair partner.

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This is called bias. People do it a million times a day every day about everything. I know where this is all coming from obviously, but, lol.

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or justifying.....but it's hard to know u are doing it when you are in the situation

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this is called attraction, not justification.