KK and i know whatever happens in this hand i will be lost

[recallme]

Villain is tag and i think knows that i am pretty aggro.

Hero is button with KhKc Nl1k 100BB

3 folds, Hero raises to 35, SB folds, BB calls

Flop is: 70$
5d4cJc
Hero bets 55 and villain c/r to 200, hero calls 145

Turn is: 470
8c

Villain bets 350, Hero calls

River is: 1170$
8h
Villain shoves for 430 and Hero?

Is the turn a fold? I have outs to the K high Flush and i could be in front of his J.

Can i fold the river getting these odds.

I have the feeling i butchered this hand totally.