Please B&M read this

[Hair_of_the_Dog]

I don't ask to see cards, but I don't mind when people ask to see mine. I just adjust my game according to the information they just got. I don't change in a drastic way. Say I'm bluffing with AK and they ask to see my cards after they fold to me, I might play 2nd pair the same way against that player the next time it comes up. This is all if I think that the player who asked for the info is actually a thinking player.

I find that when a LAG is on a heater and someone (usually me, not a brag, just when I notice) takes them down for a large pot, someone who wasn't in the hand will ask to see the LAGs hand. I don't mind getting the info so it works for me.