how hard to choke a bitch?

[shadypac]

Ok so I figured this would be a great question for BBV4L. Ive come to the realization that tons of girls like to be choked in bed, or ive been with too many sloots. Either way lets assume for aguements sake its the first one. I just found out the girl im with now also likes to be choked. Ive been doin some thinking and whats a good guideline to follow when it comes to how hard to choke a girl in bed? I dont wanna pply to much pressure and risk killing the moment or the girl lol. But I dont wanna apply to little and have her be all like, This dudes a pussy, I wanted to be choked not massaged!! So the question is pretty much that, whats a good way to decide how hard to choke a bitch. I assume this varies from female to female, goth chicks probably being at the top of the scale (stereotype maybe).

A little pole while im at it