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Pimp My Game OOT
I'll be going off to college next year, and the last thing I want to worry about is my Game. I've improved a lot over the last year, but I still have plenty of weaknesses to fix before college starts. Thus, I'm turning to OOT for help to solve these issues.
Background; My female friends say I'm "very cute." I'm 5'9 175lbs at around 10% body fat. I don't look like a professional body builder or anything, but I'm fairly muscular. I'm blonde hair (mid length) and blue eyes. I have a good sense of humor and can get people to laugh, but I'm not incredibly witty. I'm intelligent (1450 SAT, etc.) but not Stephen Hawking. I probably come across as very confident or maybe slightly arrogant. I wouldn't say I'm extroverted or introverted really... I don't mind hanging out in groups, but with a girl I'd rather it be one on one. I'm a decent guitarist and a decent songwriter. Still, I find girls really like this. I used to be too much of a nice guy. I still act this way around my girl friends (who I have no sexual interest in), but have stopped this around girls I'm interested in. . This has worked very well for me. With a little refinement, I'll have this down perfectly, but I've got the basic idea right. I've never randomly approached a girl and asked her out. Usually the girls I meet are friends of female friends I have. Through experience, I have found that I have the most success at smaller parties (15-25 people) where I find a cute girl and talk to her one on one most of the night, get her number, and take it from there. So I probably have some sort of approach anxiety with strangers. Around girls at a friend's party, this is not an issue. I'm also not super witty or anything, so it takes a little bit of conversing for me to establish myself as interesting and worthwhile. The way I dress is something I could maybe improve upon. I typically wear jeans and a decent (like nautica or something) polo that matches well. I'm not very creative in this department, and feel like this may be an area where I am lacking. The other area I need to improve is in making moves. I have only been shot down once in my life, but I still don't make a move until I'm 100% certain in my read. The other problem I have is that I'm not great at reading girls. I have a hard time deciding whether I'm falling into the friend zone or not. The result is too many missed opportunities with girls that like me. For the record, I'm more of a relationship kind of guy. I've had random hookups, but they're really not for me. OOT, Pimp My Game in the following areas; Approaching random girls (I'm planning on buying The Game) Becoming a little more witty A little variety in how I dress? Reading girls Anything else? |
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