California Honeymoon Ideas?

[SammyKid11]

I also posted this in OOT, as I'm a fairly regular poster there. Hadn't been here yet (or noticed it until after I'd posted in OOT), but seems there's some real expertise.

Fiancee and I are honeymooning up the California coast after getting married in LaJolla. We'll have four nights to spend, and we're probably going to avoid LA altogether (we've both been there, like it okay, but really want more relaxing, picturesque places). We'd like two of those nights to end up in San Francisco.

I've heard Santa Barbara is nice, and thinking of spending one night there. We also have interest in the wine country.

ANY suggestions of cities to go or stay, hotels that are great, ESPECIALLY restaurants and bars that are cool (we like almost all kinds of food and typically with bars want laid-back places where we can talk)...any information at all is welcome and appreciated!