Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.

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If my gf had some playtime my first thought would be that she is unhappy in the relationship, and I'd want to find out if that is true and get to the deeper issue.

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I'm sorry, but there's almost a 0% chance that "hmmm, she must be unhappy in the relationship" would be your first thought upon hearing the news that that she banged some random dude.

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I meant my first rational thought after the inevitable irrational period was over.

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Honestly, OP, you sound like someone who feels bad about cheating and is trying to justify it to himself. Not that it makes you unique.

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There may be some truth to this, although I honestly don't feel bad. I'm just trying to figure out what this all means to my relationship...

I'm no lostsoul, I've never cheated in the past. Like I said before I've had the opportunity and turned it down, so I'm wondering what has changed.