Pregnant GF

[Blarg]

[ QUOTE ]
Wow tough spot OP....you gotta talk this through with ur gf. Can she be convinced to put the child for adoption? My 2c is that this is best . .what you've got to realise is that the most important thing in this whole [censored] situation is that the kid gets brought up right.

Oh yeah forget about all this "it's not fair, she changed her mind" bs. If your situation is "unfair" think about how "unfair" your child's situation is going to be if you run away. If ur gf keeps the kid then you have to be there as a parent. Running is totally not an option.

[/ QUOTE ]

Yes it is, though it might not be the best one.

However, would having a father around who resents you be the best one? As a stepkid whose dad pretty much hated him and showed it almost every single damn day, I'm not sure it is. I'd really rather have had someone phoning in the money.

Besides, the option of abortion might not be locked off, however unlikely. It's too early for poppa to fold all his cards.