Friend lost her baby, what can I do/say?

[johnbeans]

So this girl I work with who was 6 months pregnant just lost her baby about 4 days ago. We work together at a Greek Restaurant as servers, and are pretty good “work friends”. While we’ve never hung out after work, it is very common for all the servers to sit by the bar after hours and get pretty tanked, so all in all we get along pretty good. This is her first baby and she’s 23 as of two days ago. Talk about getting [censored] on for your birthday. I remember reading what became a pretty big thread in OOT a few months ago about a couple losing their baby, and it really really depressed me. Hearing it in a first hand situation and knowing all the parties involved makes it infinitely more depressing. I cannot even begin to fathom how hard this must be for this girl and her husband/family. I want to say something, but I don’t know what, and I don’t know what’s appropriate.