Have you ever been with a girl out of pitty?

[William]

I was once in a night club in Amsterdam and actually on my way out of there as it seemed to be a dead evening when this cute girl approaches me. She tells me that her (girl)friend likes me and asks me to sit with them and have a drink. I look in the direction of the "friend" and she looks very cute as well and I decide to stay.

The moment I sit down, I see that the girl was completely defigurated on one side of the face. She should have been quite beautifull but something had happened to her and she had a huge scar from top to bottom of the right side of her face. I felt terrible because I just wanted to get out of there but at the same time I didn't want to hurt her feelings. Aslo I immediately started thinking if I was a jerk for paying attention to her misfortune and if I would not be doing more dammage than good by staying etc.. dozens of scenarios/possibilities begun appearing in my head and I got really confused.

I finally smiled and stayed. We talked and danced for a couple of hours, then the boyfriend of the other girl arrived and it was suggested that we finish the evening at the girl's dorm. I followed the group and we drank some more at the girl's place then she and I moved to her room and we spent the night toghether.

I was never ok with her face. I just couldn't get used to it and the girl was not even very interesting. I was visiting my parents for the weekend and had to leave for Paris next day and she seemed to be ok with it. It also made it easy for me to know that it was clear from start that this was going to be a one night stand and that I wouldn' be getting into something I would be desperate to get out of next day. She also had a great body and that helped a lot but mainly I know that I didn't had the courage to leave the moment I saw her. I was only 18 and was caught completely off guard which probably is just a bad excuse.

Total jerk or just young and scared? Fire away...