Woman Problems

[woman problems]

This is not my first post, although maybe my first one in OTT. I’m not sure. I’m a long time, and well-respected poster on the strategy boards. I haven’t ever posted many details about myself personally so don’t bother trying to figure out who I am.


Here’s my dilemma: I’m 34. My girlfriend of two years is 22. She’s a great girl in every way. She's beautiful. Big brown eyes, natural Ds and a nice round butt. She’s also very mature for her age. She knows herself very well and is well-adjusted. She loves kinky sex too. She loves it when I do her like a puppy, not to mention she absolutely loves me SingIIHP, and kinky roleplay (i.e. professor-student, boss-employee, etc.). Anyway, I recently asked her to marry me, and she said yes. Her family is great, and they all like me.


The problem is my wife of twelve years, with whom I have a 6 year-old son. Early in our marriage things were great. I pounded her like a hammer at least five days a week. However, after a couple of years, she just woke up one day and decided she was frigid. And I do mean frigid. I’m talking I’m lucky if I get it twice a year from her. And I can’t even remember what a blowjob from her is like. Other than that, our marriage is pretty good. We do love each other, and have a great kid. But after several years of taking care of myself, I guess I got tired of it and when I met my now-girlfriend we just clicked. It wasn’t planned, but I’ve been very happy. Yes, I know I should’ve broken up with my wife first, but I didn’t. I know it was wrong.


So where’s the dilemma? Well I’ve been planning to tell my wife I’m leaving, but last night out of the blue she starts talking about sex. She was being completely uninhibited for the first time in years. She starts telling me things she’d like to try. She wants to go to the store and buy porn. She wants to go to the strip club and “touch some boobies.”


So now I’m in a bind. I’ve made a commitment to my girlfriend, who I love and who is amazing. But she might also be willing to maintain status quo for awhile. But I also love my wife and the one thing that’s been wrong with my marriage for about 10 years seems to be suddenly completely fixed.


What do you think I should do?

And here's a pic for the help (no it isn't either the wife or girlfriend.)