Some Quick Questions of Etiquette

[theJoblessWobbly]

1. Is it okay to fold out of turn? We had a guy doing this in a recent home game and no one minded, but it kind of bothered me because people could see there was one less player who could call/raise them if they bet. He never meant to do it. He just sucked and didn't pay attention. What should I do if it's not okay?

2. The same guy would occasionally call out of turn. How do you handle the hand when someone does that?

3. Same douchebag was dealer. He called and thought he was last to act so he dealt the flop, but the next guy hadn't had a turn to act yet. The flop came up very favorably for him, but he admitted he was strongly thinking of folding before it was dealt. We ended up just letting everyone take their chips back and replayed the hand. Was that right?

And no, this guy that managed to raise 3 questions of procedure without ever intending to isn't invited back to anymore games.