Players act out of turn-Do I have anybody to blame but myself.

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10/20 last night. UTG raises, 1 call. Just before the player to my right acts, the waitress arrives with my drink. I have not touched my cards yet. They are sitting to the right of my big stack of chips.

I turn to tip the waitress and take the drink/cupholder from her. I look down at A [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] A [img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] and 3 bet unaware that the player too my left has folded out of turn & the CO & button have both called 2 bets.

Floor is called. The dealer explains I had never acted and she was looking at me the whole time. Floor rules their has been significant action and I can not raise I can only call. I argue that I hadn't acted yet, but I really don't know the correct ruling and quickly concede that I can only call.

Is this my fault for being distracted by the waitress/Not having my cards visable? (As a side note I always keep my cards in front of my chip stack after I've made my intial pre-flop action.) Did floor/dealer act correctly on this hand?