Female Opinion on BJ's

[jzpiano]

In light of the BJ and Kids thread, I have a question for the ladies. Do you like giving Bj's? Why? Are you taking them away or cutting back if you get/or are married? I'm just curious to see what a women's opinion is on this matter, since I've only heard my gf's opinion and I suspect that she just tells me what I want to hear and not the truth....

[billygrippo]

girls like what i want them to like.

[jzpiano]

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girls like what i want them to like.

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yeah don't we all wish this was the case

[Tennenbaum]

There are some chicks who love 'em, some who hate 'em. I think most don't mind either way.

Sometimes I'm just not in the mood to give one (lazy, tired etc...) and I'd rather just have sex.

They are most def. obligatory on birthday's, anniversary's, and holiday's though. As well as when we're given a nice gift (say jewelry or something.) And should generally be given, IMO, at least 3x a month (in a long term relationship)

[samjjones]

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There are some chicks who love 'em, some who hate 'em. I think most don't mind either way.

Sometimes I'm just not in the mood to give one (lazy, tired etc...) and I'd rather just have sex.

They are most def. obligatory on birthday's, anniversary's, and holiday's though. As well as when we're given a nice gift (say jewelry or something.) And should generally be given, IMO, at least 3x a month (in a long term relationship)

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[yellowdoyle]

3x a month?? Isn't that a bit weak?

[Sluss]

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They are most def. obligatory on birthday's, anniversary's, and holiday's though. As well as when we're given a nice gift (say jewelry or something.) And should generally be given, IMO, at least 3x a month (in a long term relationship)

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You need to change this to 3x a week or at least once or twice a week. If you give up nothing on your end don't expect anything from our end.

[Tennenbaum]

Whoa, whoa, whoa. I said at least. After a while though, I tend to agree w/ Felicia. I generally will give 'em when asked for, unless of course I dont feel well or I'm tired. Which isnt that often. I dont expect anything in return if I myself am not willing to do the deed. That def. is not fair. But demanding them 3x a week is a little unreasonable.

[adsman]

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I generally will give 'em when asked for, ...

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I don't want to ask the obvious, but.....

[gorie]

i only like the first part of the BJ, you know, enough to get him really into it, until i stop and say something like "oh crap, i forgot to tell you that your mom called before, you should call her back."

then i go brush my teeth because weiners are gross.